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Archived questions from: 24 February, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

If a girl touches a guy, does it mean she likes him? I'm not sure if this girl likes me or not.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

24 February 2011 (M) - Last year we had a uni meeting at a beach and it had been drizzling. I was cold and didn't expect the weather to be that bad, so I had only worn a t shirt and shorts. While we were walking in a group a girl who hangs around me sometimes threw her ...

Should I be honest with my boyfriend, and tell him I don't feel I'm good enough to be his girlfriend, or should I keep this to myself?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - Hello Aunts and Uncles. I recently read an article by Tracy McMillan entitled “Why You’re Not Married” at the Huffington Post website. The article got me thinking. The author listed 5 reasons for why a man wouldn’t marry a woman, (let’s say it’s you ...

We're in financial trouble and have been offered money for sex, should we do it?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - I am currently engaged and still studying, which means I don’t have much time to work. Money for us is quite tight between paying for our house and other expenses. My fiance had lunch with a man who we have known for a little while and brought ...

This man falls asleep while texting me, and is always too tired to come see me! Guys, what is going on in this man's head?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5025 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - I really need a guy’s opinion about this please. Such a long story, but basically, I've liked this guy for 10 years. 2 years ago, he broke up with his long term girlfriend and we got together for about a month because I was moving away for a year. ...

My online friend told me he's not ready to meet me. That's fine, but why is he ignoring my messages and phone calls now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - I've known a guy now for many years over the internet, constantly talking and everything. We arranged to meet, but he pulled out at the last miniute, as he said, "he can't do this; he's not ready." In return, I sent numerous messages telling him not ...

If I kiss her will that make us official as b/f and g/f?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

24 February 2011 (M) - I am going on a date with the girl I like tomorrow, I want to hold her hand and kiss her, if I do this will it make her think that we are officially going out as bf and gf?...

I'm concerned! Am I butting into my boyfriend's life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4748 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - okay so now my boyfriend isn't really talking to me and when we do talk it's for like 1 minute and most of the time we're just standing there until one of us says k got to go bye! and i also want to know if i'll seem untrustworthy if i ask him why ...

Birds of a feather flock together?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - if someone has horrible friends, does this mean that they are horrible too? this guy i am sort of interested in has told me that his mates are really bad trouble makers and womanisers, he says he does not 'identify with them any more' but the fact ...

I need no-contact in order to move on, he agreed then sent me a text!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - Was with a guy for five years, engaged and lived together for two of those! He broke it off with me, been split now over seven months. Been a pretty rocky road ever since, talking one minute, not the next. ! He rang a few weeks back in tears, s...

He means the world to me. How can I get him to trust me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - Hello :-) Right, i shall start from the begining so it makes more sense to you all. (whoever's reading) My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly a year now, and at the begining of the relationship i was still talking to other boys (jus...

Couldn't we at least stay friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - So, a while back this guy added me on Facebook. He graduated the same high school I'm attending, so he's 3 years older than me(I'm 17, he's almost 20). We started talking and he really seemed into me and even told me so. We would Skype often, and ...

My best friend is telling him I like him..will he go weird on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - so, my best friend is starting to tell the guy i like that i like him. im not so sure if it's such a good thing that he knows. me and him have been friends for like 6 months now, and tell each other everything. will this whole thing make him wierd ...

How do I get back out into the dating field?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5025 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - I broke up with my ex 8 months ago and although i feel like im over him i still dont have my life back, im not going out much and i spend alot of time on chat websites. Im only 19 and i cant believe my life is like this already. i really want to m...

I am gay and still have feelings for my ex-boyfriend. Also, I told a crush that I liked him, but he is straight. HELP!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5025 days ago

24 February 2011 (M) - Hello everyone, Let's say my name is WD. I'm in high school at a small, preppy academy, and I'm gay, but I didn't fully come to this realization until the day before Halloween of last year. A guy, let's call him FC, came out to me; we had been fli...

I'm uncertain about a LDR!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - Help! I'm really new to my relationship with my boyfriend... We've known each other for three years now and we became a couple about 9 months ago. My concern is that I'm afraid of letting him go. By that I mean him going off to a different school, ...

I love him but I need to let go, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend asked me for child and I told him I'm not ready for that. He went and got another girl pregnant that he said he was talking to but I assumed they are still together, I confronted both of them on three way for the man to choose he ...

I don't know what to do, his temper really scares me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been with my man for 7 years now. We love each other but sometimes I wonder if we are right for each other. In the 7 years he has treated me very nice and very bad at times. He does not trust me all because I told a lie when we ...

Things between us are awkward, is he still interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - I've started talking again to this nice guy that I met almost 2 months ago. Well we both go to the same university and were in the same organization. He pursued me first through online chat. I was surprised since we had never talked before. He gave ...

Is flirting online a form of cheating?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost two years. Our arguments have always been about him flirting with women on Facebook or MySpace. Is that considered cheating if hes flirting online and he tells women he's single? ...

It started out promising, what happened?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - My friends and I go to the same bar every weekend. After several months of attending, one of the bartenders and I hit it off. He took my number, started texting every day (non-stop), called, asked me out and things looked promising. We went on a ...

I cant see a way out of this fog so would really appreciate if someone, somewhere can pull me out of it!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - Hello Cupids :) This is complicated so thank you in advance to those who get to the end! I've been with my boyfriend just over a year now, I am 24, he is 31 and I really should feel lucky to be with him, but instead I am ruining this relationshi...

How can I get this absurd feeling out of my head?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

24 February 2011 (M) - Hi To everyone, I am a 31 year old male from the UK, I have never had an issue like this before and it is seriously impacting on multiple aspects of my life. Work and social life have suffered due to what I can only put down to anxiety or jealo...

Once I fell pregnant to him he told me he was already MARRIED!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - I'm 23 yrs. old. I have met a guy last year at a club. After a week of dating, we agreed to have a commitment. At first I agreed to it just for fun then I realized I am falling for him. After 2 months of dating, I found out I am pregnant with his ...

He's not into sex as much as I'd maybe like him to be... is his behaviour normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - I am 30 and my boyfriend is in his mid fourties. At my age I obviously have a bigger sex drive than he does. I want sex pretty much all the time right now. I will also add that I have noticed an increase in my sex drive over the past year. I am the ...

Is this normal behaviour after a breakup?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - It's now been about 3 week since my ex boyfriend broke up with me. We would talk occasionally through emails or texts the first week it ended but the past 2 weeks I've texted him almost everyday and he hasn't responded to any of my texts. I know I ...

Secrets...???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - Alright so, i'm asking on behalf of my best friend, she has a boyfriend and they're very close. They were friends beforehand and they've been going out for just over a month. Anyway the issue is that he has told her some of his secrets and he's...

I've been seeing him 2 weeks, what is an appropriate amount to spend for a birthday gift for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - Hi there, I have been seeing a guy for just over 2 weeks. Thing is, in those 16 days we have seen each other 11 times. I have never gotten this close with someone this quickly, or seen them this amount. my question is fairly trivial... it is...

Am I stupid for wanting to wait for him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - Hello. I am in a dielmma and need some advice. I recently connected with my first love through facebook and we got together. It went so well but the problem is now that he is going through a legal nightmare from years ago and is now in jail. He ...

Does he care more than he is letting on or does he not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - Hi,I'm hoping out there some of you can help me understand this man i'm seeing better,as he is giving me so many differant signals that i'm not sure what to make of him. we have been having a relationship for many yrs, and he has told me many tim...

Should I tell him my secrets?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - My BF and I have been dating for 7 weeks today(2/24/11). And he has decided to tell me all the secrets he has been keeping from me......some of them I'm not very comfortable with but I still love him! Now that he has told me his secrets, I feel a l...

When is a platonic friendship not platonic anymore?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - When is a platonic friendship not platonic anymore? any signs or actions that you think is like BIG signs? ...

How to avoid guys who flirt so strongly with zero intentions of being sincere ever?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - Well, I'm a person who has not yet found her life partner. I wasn't even in search of one when at 19 yrs of age I came across a guy who kept wooing me for about 5 yrs. When I interacted with any other suitor he detested it but never proposed me ...

I lost my confidence after my first relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

24 February 2011 (M) - My ex-girlfriend used to abuse me and scold me so much that I have lost my confidence completely . Whenever I try talking to girl , my body starts crumbling and I can’t figure out what to say and what not to. I am so low on confidence that I f...

He said I took advantage of him! What on earth happened here?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - I really need someone to tell me what just happened in the matter of two weeks with one of my best friends. He and I have been close for quite some time we are both 31 and should be well beyond acting like children. The sexual tension was building ...

My boyfriend's Mum keeps inviting his Ex round to the house!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5025 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months now (seeing him for 6) and everything was great at first. Also, I got on well with his Mum. Not long after we got together, his Mum's Grandma died (my boyfriends great grandma) and I missed an import...

Should I hook up with him again or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5025 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - Alright, so my friend and I (not particularly close friends) started hooking up right before break ended. I always have had a tiny crush on him, and one thing led to the other and somehow he started to like me. I left, and he kept in contact ...

I don't feel as desired as his ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - I have been dating this great guy for about 7 months now. He is really really sweet and gentle and mature. Before we started to date, we had discussed our pasts.He said his ex looked bad and was really just a cry-baby and would keep fighting with ...

I overheard my boyfriend bragging to his friend about using me for sex and then breaking up!!

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - hi everybody I've been crying my eyes out all day because when I was walked into the passway leading to my boyfriend's dorm room I overheard him bragging and giving high fives to his roommate about how he was going to break up with me after he ...

I'm 27 and he's 41...Should I go for it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - I know age is "just a number." But I met this guy through a mututal friend and he's 14-years older than me. I told my friend that I found him attractive but that I thought he might be a little too old for me. Anyway, we've started seeing each ...

Do you think I should add him as a friend on Facebook?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - I developed a crush on this guy at school. He's a year older than me and I'm not sure if it would be alright that I add him as a friend on Facebook. The problem is, approximately a year ago, he added a few of my own friends because he thought they ...

I'm a quiet, reserved person who attracts mainly military guys. Why??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5025 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - Two questions in one - thought that would be more efficient :) 1.) I'm a quiet person in class; I keep to myself, don't talk much or join in class discussions. But I still get guys interested in me. I'm questioning this because I'm not "hot" or...

Never been kissed: how do I learn what to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

24 February 2011 (M) - Hello everyone! I am 17 years old and I recently just got into my first relationship. I have never been in a relationship before because I was always to focused on my GPA (it's a 4.0). Anyway this girl has some experience which kind of makes me ...

Did she like me back and was I stupid in how I handled my feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5023 days ago

24 February 2011 (M) - So I had met this girl back last summer at my camp. We were both CITs [Counselors in Training]. I knew I was going to fall for her as soon as I saw her and tried to hold back my feelings as long as I could. I talked to her and while we had little in ...

Relationship with long time close friend who's always had a crush on me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4518 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - Hmm I've known a guy let's call him O, for 5 years and he's liked me from the first day we met. I was going out with someone else at the time in a long distance relationship but I did like O, and thought he was someone I would go out with if I wa...

How to approach a girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5026 days ago

24 February 2011 (M) - Well there is this girl at school that i like and i dont really know how to approach her. I sat next to her in one of my classes and she did'nt mind it but i was nervous the entire time. i actually couldnt believe i made such a proactive move ...