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Archived questions from: March, 2014 (see latest questions)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why do guys ask for my number but never call?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3916 days ago

31 March 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Everytime i go out dancing with my friend (girl), I meet a really cool guy we have a good time, and at the end of the night they ask for my number. I give it to the ones I like, and they always end up not calling/ messaging. I'm sick and tired of that. Why would someone ... (95 words)

He broke things off since he was falling for me and now I might be pregnant! How do I handle this?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3915 days ago

31 March 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey so I'm 19 and I recently lost my virginity to a 28 year old anyway we were sort of together with no labels for two and a half months. He decided to block and delete me out of his life as he was "falling" for me I know I was used worst thing is I've missed my period the sex ... (208 words)

Relationship Insecurity Advice Please

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3917 days ago

31 March 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, I was hoping for some tips or pointers on how to build confidence after it goes down when being in a relationship. I have a wonderful boyfriend, from the moment he committed himself to me he has been honest, truthful, and nuturing. I could not ask for m... (199 words)

Simply homesick or seriously time to call it quits?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3917 days ago

31 March 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi All, I've been in a lovely relationship for 3.5 years now. Two years ago I took a big leap of faith and moved halfway across the world to be with this man (the first year we were both in the same city). Most days I am rather happy with this little life, but I can't help thi... (259 words)

My internet friend doesn't like me the way I like her. I am heartbroken.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3917 days ago

31 March 2014 (?) age 22-25 - Ok so I have this Internet friend. I really like her a lot she is really pretty even though others don't think so and shes super funny and nice and likes a lot of the same stuff as me. I finally got the guts to tell her. She has a girlfriend already and does not feel the same ... (116 words)

I'm feeling anxious since the break up. How do I deal with it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3917 days ago

31 March 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey guys, I came here last week for some help over a really painful break up I'm going through. The one where my girlfriend broke up with me due to her mental illness (depression, anxiety and eating disorder). I received lots of very helpful opinions and kind words. This... (317 words)

How do you respond to a Facebook flirt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3917 days ago

31 March 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - With Facebook, Google +1 and the ilk we are flooding more of ourselves into the public eye than at any other time in history. Given that fact, do you take comments, flirts or pokes too seriously? These sites are targeted as social interaction, for you to meet, comment an... (126 words)

My girlfriend defecates during sex

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3858 days ago

31 March 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I have been with my current girlfriend for over 2 years and ever since the beginning she has had a problem during sex. It doesn't matter what position we try, each time during intercourse she poos. I've asked her if she is doing it on purpose to which she got r... (161 words)

How did my close friend manage to keep all this to herself?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3917 days ago

31 March 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - I can't understand what happened on saturday night with this girl i'm friends with, i've known her three years and never seen this side of her!! She's always been a confident, talkative and happy girl. We're on the same course at university and I've always been attracted t... (596 words)

I think my vulnerable friend is being taken advantage of

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3915 days ago

31 March 2014 (M)

age - This woman was previously abused in a very long term marriage. (slapped around then forcibly Raped on her wedding night by her husband.) He abused her in many other ways as well. He made her feel guilty and took great advantage of her. She is now emotionally vulnerab... (203 words)

He treats me like his girlfriend but then says he doesn't want a serious relationship. I'm not sure where I stand!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3917 days ago

31 March 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been seeing a guy for 2 months now. When we first started seeing each other I asked him if he was just in it for sex as I don't want a relationship like that, and he told me no. I have also been honest with him and told him that I have had some bad experiences in the ... (231 words)

How much are you expected to spend on your girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3914 days ago

31 March 2014 (M) age 36-40 - Hi, I need an opinion and an advice, it's a bit long but I would really appreciate your help! First of all some details: I'm in a long relationship, we are about 6 years together (from age about 20), I love her but not sure how much she loves me today, we had our ups and down... (1057 words)

Should I push for him to decide how he really feels? Should I tell him my feelings alot(that I love him)? Should I push for us to meet in person?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3915 days ago

31 March 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - 2 months ago I broke up with my then boyfriend of 2 years. I broke up with him because I thought he'd be better off with a girlfriend that didn't live 200+ miles away from him, and a girlfriend that he didn't have to leave his family to be with. The 2 months were horrible, I... (231 words)

Is this normal male behavior or is this just bad behavior?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3917 days ago

31 March 2014 (F)

age - I am a newlywed. I have always known my hubbie is a friendly guy, especially to women but I think he has really crossed a line with his behavior this last week. He says his behavior is normal for men and I need to get over it. This is the second marriage for us both. I would ... (436 words)

We've hooked up twice but have yet to make it past second base, and now I'm wondering if she's not that into me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3916 days ago

31 March 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - So I'm in college as is the girl I've been very interested in for over a year. I've been working hard at getting on her good side, texting her almost every day "randomly" running into her between classes. If I had to guess it's been pretty obvious that I'm into her. The ot... (224 words)

Is it time for me to leave these friends behind?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3916 days ago

31 March 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My closest girlfriends and I are a group of four. A couple weeks ago, girlfriend "A" messaged us asking to hang out that upcoming Saturday. "B" said OK and I asked "when and where?" However Saturday came and gone with A and B both having both seen the message but not ... (378 words)

My girlfriend seldom tells me she loves me anymore

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3918 days ago

31 March 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - i've been with my girlfriend for over 3 years. recently she has stopped saying I love you as much as she used to. but she's actually increased other things she does for me. like she spends more time with me than before, she does more things for me and she is more honest about ... (479 words)

Should I cancel my membership or will that make me look needy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3917 days ago

31 March 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, i'm wondering what i should do. My online date and i have been hitting it off so well, over the past few mths, that now he has decided to leave the dating site where we met for good, so that he and i can pursue a possible future relationship together. We have had 4... (299 words)

How do I rescue this friendship without crossing the line?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3917 days ago

31 March 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a female friend who is in a relationship with a good male friend of mine. She has been a great listener when I have a problem and both her and her partner are valuable friends for me. The problem I have is that I have been single for a long time and started having f... (213 words)

My boyfriend doesn't take into account the fact that I'm very sensitive

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3917 days ago

31 March 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my partner for eight-ish years. Some of those were long distance; about half were not. We've had some instability in the relationship, from my breaking up with him multiple times but we've also had some good times. About a year ago we moved to a new town across ... (787 words)

I get no sense of acceptance from my church

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3910 days ago

30 March 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, my question is regards to church, I have attended the same church since I was a child and I'm now in 20s but I have always felt like I was the outsider! Every little detail of me at some point has been commented on, my family who don't attend church, my education even ... (279 words)

He was the perfect friend, I fell for him, now he's engaged to someone else

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3917 days ago

30 March 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone , im on my phone so Im sorry if it doesn't make sense or there is any spelling errors. Ok well there is this guy, who in my seems so perfect and I've known him for a while (over 10 years, he was 6 years older.) we get along well , i find i can easily talk to him a... (295 words)

We get so little time together that distance is creeping in

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3917 days ago

30 March 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend almost 8 years however the older we're getting the less time we're spending together. we both live with our parents, but we are in the process of getting a house. he lives away during and comes home at weekends. he has a severely downsyndrome ... (229 words)

Have I lost her friendship? Should I give up or contact her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3918 days ago

30 March 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi,- sorry for rambling on a bit but this is really badly playing on my mind. A few months ago I wrote this question http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-best-friend-has-changed-for-the-worse.html I just don’t understand why I can’t get over the fact I’ve pretty much n... (421 words)

Do you my find it appropriate for a woman to sit on your husband's lap?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3917 days ago

30 March 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband and I were with friends last night. We were playing a party game and my husband drew a card which made him "Santa Claus." Two of our male friends sat on his lap as a joke and I also sat on my husband's lap. But then one of our friends girlfriends also sat on his lap. ... (239 words)

Problems with boyfriend, Facebook, and other girls.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3917 days ago

30 March 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and when we first started dating he would put stuff on his facebook without me having to ask him. But now it's like a war. I feel like its not fair to me that his ex's got sweet statuses and got to be his cover photo and stuff but he ... (422 words)

A true friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3917 days ago

30 March 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Any advice/support would be grateful. So since my friend got herself a boyfriend (they have been together over a year now) she just does not bother with me or any of her other friends. This is going to sound pathetic, but she used to text all the time and now she do... (97 words)

Why do guys string along lots of women at once?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3916 days ago

30 March 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, Why do guys string along lots of women at once? I know this middle aged guy who's about to get married (to his dying fiancé) and has kids, and he has loads of women adoring him at work and is sleeping with many women from work. He's not attractive in my eyes, not ... (223 words)

Why can't I get over this offensive incident?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3917 days ago

30 March 2014 (M)

age 51-59 - I took a tennis class and this pretty woman walked up to me during the first one and said, "Hi Bob! I lost your e-mail address!" I replied that it was no big deal and I'd give it to her again. She then said to me, "Err, no, that's okay," etc. I was really offended. I mean... (151 words)

After no training, and lack of support I feel I have been unfairly dismissed. I am left with absolutely nothing including no income, what can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3917 days ago

30 March 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, I posted last weekend about beng made to feel like I'm thick since starting my new job, heres the link - http://www.dearcupid.org/question/since-starting-my-new-job-i-feel-like.html. Well I appreicate that everyone I spoke to in person, even a new member of staff ... (1186 words)

Will alcohol make you have sex with someone of the same gender?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3917 days ago

30 March 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Will alcohol make you have sex with someone of the same gender? Will you completely forget or not realize it happened the next day? I feel guilty a tipsy friend came on to me hard. I had zero intentions of having sex with her but it happened. I felt like wow did I just take ... (118 words)

I can't block the ex because we work together!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3917 days ago

30 March 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Just a week ago my boyfriend told me that his no longer interested in me and wants to move forward with another girl. I have deleted all his contacts and pictures from my laptop and cell. Worst thing is we both are working in the same company. Everyday i have to face him. The ... (120 words)

Her new hair colour makes a radical difference!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3917 days ago

30 March 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - This is probably a very unusual question to ask, but I'm just curious. My girlfriend has always had very dark black hair in the time that I've known her and we've been together. In fact, her dark features are what I found very attractive and beautiful, she has brown eyes a... (271 words)

Regaining sexual confidence after wife cheated

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3901 days ago

30 March 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a question on confidence lost for a man after my wife of 20 years cheated on me. Basically we had been together for 20 years, I was 17 when we met, she was 16. About 2 and a half years ago she cheated on me with an old friend of hers. This went on for 8 months until I c... (253 words)

How do I just let these go and enjoy my relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3918 days ago

30 March 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - In November last year, I had a huge fight with my boyfriend where he then went out and got drunk.. Kissed another girl and took her number. The fight had started because I snooped on him and accused him for a whole year of still having feelings for his ex and being suspicious ... (376 words)

Fallen in love with a guy who told me he is not ready to commit from the start.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3917 days ago

30 March 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - This is not my first broken heart. I've had worst. I just seem to not being able to let this one go. Scenario: I work in a healthcare industry as an Administrator, met an owner of a pharmacy who is 9 years older than me. He told me from the start that he has a kid, not divor... (446 words)

The relationship is done but I can't bring myself to end it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3918 days ago

30 March 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Thankyou for taking the time to read my question, hopefully you can help me. I've been with my boyfriend for around a year and a half and I feel like the relationship isn't working anymore. After much thought I've realised that the best thing for both of us is to end it. We... (257 words)

Are adults too busy to make new friends these days, do we not even try anymore?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3917 days ago

30 March 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - Do we not see those that are alone and may need a new friend? are we so suspicious of someone making small talk or being friendly, say when we meet them, that we ignore them for our own friends? or our own lives, family etc etc. Many ppl have busy lives but everyone nee... (185 words)

He was more supportive before the FWB started

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3917 days ago

29 March 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - First I live in a foreign country and in a small town and luckily for the past five years I have had a male friend who I have spent a lot of time with. In the past I have helped him with many things and last year when my Mum was diagnosed with breast cancer he'd always come ... (241 words)

I try my best but he gets angry and irritated with me.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3917 days ago

29 March 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Why is my boyfriend behaving this way? I'm really upset.? My boyfriend is really upsetting me. He's get angry and irritated with me and is making me really upset. I'm a good girl. I try my best with him. I go to gym regularly to keep fit look good for him and feel ... (183 words)

Does my FWB want more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3917 days ago

29 March 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Let me start from the beginning, I signed up for a dating site, decided after a few days it wasn't my thing. I later found a message on FB from a guy who found me on the dating site. He said my profile disappeared, so he Googled my email address. WE originally dicussed a FWB ... (605 words)

If he can't stop I wtll walk!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3866 days ago

29 March 2014 (F) age 30-35 - Hi aunts and uncles. My Fiance and I have been together 5 years, we have two soon to be three beautiful children together (4, 2 soon to be 3 and our last due in june) We are getting married next month. My deliemma is that I found he posted a personals ad on craigslist last ... (651 words)

Never thought it would go on so long or get so serious, and now I can't live with the lies

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3917 days ago

29 March 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - You guys have probably never gotten a problem like this before...what I'm about to say is completely disgusting but please bare with me. I randomly met a guy online about 1 year ago. It was all just fun and games at first and a few days into talking with him he wanted to see... (434 words)

I know if I talk to him I'll take him back ...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3919 days ago

29 March 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid I am with my bf for almost 4 years. We never really talked about marriage as he has some commitment issues. We had our ups and downs, but for past 2 months relationship is going downhill, he often talks about his boss (lady) with whom he had a crush on. She is... (292 words)

Don't know if I want to date him or get back with my ex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3919 days ago

29 March 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it ok to go to watch a show at the theatre with a man that isn't your boyfriend?. What do you think about that?. I don't know if I want to date this guy, and I don't know if he wants to date me. I'm also not sure whether I will get back with my ex boyfriend or not. It's all ... (64 words)

I feel he has been rewarded for leading me on!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3915 days ago

29 March 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I was with my boyfriend for 9 months. The relationship ended because I pushed him to move in with me and he was clearly not sure. I was patient but then he decided to end it with no reason as to why. He never formally did this - just cut me out of his life. My ... (496 words)

My boyfriend wants me to break it off with him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3919 days ago

29 March 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Any one good at body language?? I think my boyfriend I had over a decade is trying to get me to dump him but I can't he started a fight today.. even during the fight he said I'm not breaking up with you, your gonna do it this time is what he said.. I asked him if he really ... (99 words)

I need help in understanding ......

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3917 days ago

29 March 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - MOD NOTE: Two questions from same asker, combined. Firstly let me say that this is kind of my last hope of getting some actual real advice. I have been with this guy for a year now actually a year since yesterday. Lately he's been really distant, he doesn't text me much, we... (321 words)

I'm pregnant, and it's not a good time!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3919 days ago

29 March 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I just found out I am three weeks pregnant - it's not the best time for it in that Myself and my boyfriend have just moved into his parents house for the year so that he can afford to start his own business. (I have a permanent job.) And right now, he is super stressed out with ... (120 words)

Should I continue this long-distance relationship knowing we can't be together for another two years at least?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3917 days ago

29 March 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Am I stupid to be willing to wait for so long for us to be together? My fiance and I are in a long distance relationship. We always have been. We are recently engaged. I love him very much, but I struggle with the length of time it will be before we can (likely-not even... (289 words)