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Archived questions from: 10 March, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Was he falling for me or was I just a distraction?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3907 days ago

10 March 2014 (F) age 51-59 - I made contact with an old childhood friend on Facebook...we are both in our 40s now and it was nice to catch up on what had happened in our lives.We are both married and we would chat everyday....he said he suffered from depression, I felt sorry for him but later started to ... (282 words)

She knows I'm no threat, so why is she getting all wierd?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3907 days ago

10 March 2014 (?) age 26-29 - I've been really close with one of my male friends since the age of 2, I'm now 18, that's 16 years and I've been friends with his girlfriend for 7 years and all of a sudden she's getting weird with me when it comes to him. I am openly gay, everyone knows and all of my friend... (227 words)

How do I overcome my desire to have a baby?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3906 days ago

10 March 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Okay so I am nearly 21 years old. I really want a baby- I know yes this is not the right time or nevermind timing I have no boyfriend either! I only work 20 hours a week so not enough income either and I live with my parents. I just do not know how to overcome thi... (75 words)

I'm in love with someone I can't be with.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3907 days ago

10 March 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Everyone, Some of you may say I'm a sad loser, but I'm really needing some advice. It's been almost 2 years since I split up with my girlfriend. I've never been so in love with anyone in my entire life! I've tried to move on. Dated other women but nothing compares... (415 words)

At 15 why is it so wrong to flirt with guys if I only want it to stay at the friend level? And why is it difficult to make friends with guys?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3907 days ago

10 March 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - I've seen a few posts in here about people who were taken the wrong way or who accidentally led guys on. It seems like most of you aunts and uncles think that flirting/hanging out one-on-one is leading a guy on (this happens to me ALL the time!) and that you have to be direct ... (373 words)

A question about how men aged around 50 express emotions?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3907 days ago

10 March 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I have a question about the way that men - especially men aged around 50 - express their emotions. I understand that, because of social conditioning, men and women may experience very similar emotional ranges but express them differently. Very broadly sp... (264 words)

She broke up with me but want to continue to play computer dice with me? Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3907 days ago

10 March 2014 (M)

age - I am 70 years old, and was married for 38 years when my wife pass away, 2 years after her death, I started going with another lady, we had seven years together before she pass away of ovarian cancer. two years after her death, I met this lady that just broke up with me. she ... (170 words)

How can I feel ok with my past now, especially when my boyfriend's past reminds me of how little I've lived?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3908 days ago

10 March 2014 (F) age 36-40 - I'm a very insecure woman and it's affecting me a lot now that I'm in a relationship. Ok, so first things first, I'm 25 and as a child I had friends and was sociable and didn't care about my appearance. When I grew up, as a teenager, I was shy and found it difficult to con... (842 words)

I want to leave her but I want my kid with me! Advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3908 days ago

10 March 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - Me and my partner have a four year old daughter. Two years ago I found out she was setting another guy, this being bad enough, I then found out she was on a sex site posting pics of herself!!!! I confronted her, we split but I couldn't bear being away from my kid so we tried ... (92 words)

My boyfriend broke up with me, still loves me but doesn't want to get hurt? Advice!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3908 days ago

10 March 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend broke up with me even if he likes me a lot.. So, I cried so much yesterday when he broke up with me, we knew we will beak up one day thats for sure. THe thing is he still likes me he adores me and I know that, but he broke up with me because in Sept. im moving ... (201 words)

He might have called out another name, I'm not sure!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3908 days ago

10 March 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend around 3 1/2 years. Last night we were having sex [Mod note: overly graphic details removed] he was seeing *everything* up close and personal so there was NO way he could have mistaken me for someone else. He was looking at my face, body, ... (344 words)

Why won't she talk about things? What's going on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3908 days ago

10 March 2014 (M)

age - After getting some advise from this web site, I have one more question. Myfriend and I were members in the a club, there are meeting every Monday nights, Should I continue to attend those meeting, she is a officer in this club. I have a lot of friends and we do a lot of activ... (150 words)

Our first fight and we were awful to each other, why, and how do we prevent it happening again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3907 days ago

10 March 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my boyfriend had our first real argument and it was horrible! Basically whilst out drinking with my boyfriend, friend and friends boyfriend my boyfriend said something inappropriate. I did get upset over it but i feel my reaction was fulled by my friend. Anyway as a res... (262 words)

Someone is going to be unhappy, who do I choose?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3908 days ago

10 March 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfirend and i broke up at the end of january and have decided to get back together but my family wont support us. The reason is he broke up with me and its a LDR i'm so upset like i want us all to be happy and get on but its a case of if i stay with him my family wont be ... (138 words)

How do I get rid of my desires?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3901 days ago

10 March 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, I am a 48 year old woman in a 4 year relationship with a man who does not like to have sex or affection. I love him and for this to work I need help as soon as possible. I desire him all the time. I could see him from across the room and BAM! I want him! He on ... (130 words)

My heart knows that I need to leave! But I don't want another failed relationship! Advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3908 days ago

10 March 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I am engaged to a man that I have been dating for over 3 years. We have been engaged for 6 months and the wedding is fast approaching. I am finding myself very unhappy. We don't see each other very much because of his overly busy schedule and poor time management skills. I... (749 words)

My girlfriend wants me to delete pictures of my ex's on Facebook... Is she overreacting or am I being unreasonable?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3903 days ago

10 March 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm sorry to say that this problem is due to Facebook, you probably get lots of these! My girlfriend wants me to delete photos of me and my ex-girlfriends from Facebook. She doesn't seem to like the idea of them being on my page and she says it embarrasses her.... (189 words)

I've never had a bj to completion, should I try with this guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3908 days ago

10 March 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a 30 year old straight/bi curious man and I have never gotten a blowjob to completion. The woman has always stopped before I orgasm. I have the oppportunity to let another man give me a bj to completion. He wants to in the worst way and I am tempted because I want to ... (66 words)

Will he ditch me? And is it okay to proceed with a threesome?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3908 days ago

10 March 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - hiii i hav with this guy for 2years....we ae in ldr met once in a couple of months.... basically he is possesive guy orthodox believes in "one gal for me policy" ...never let me to talk to guys ( i m ok with it ).... he takes care for my protection and loves me so much n... (169 words)

Boyfriend constantly having mental breakdowns. Anyone experience this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3908 days ago

10 March 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - So we have been together for over four years, but have only been living together for a year and a half. I didn't learn about these panic attacks/breakdowns until after we moved in together. He has been diagnosed with ADD and has severe anxiety. Many times, a stressful situat... (443 words)

Ready to date but I don't know where to start!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3908 days ago

10 March 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a recent grad who has been single for three years. I'm ready to meet someone! However there's no one I'm interested in at my workplace which is a small company. Is online dating worth a shot? What are some options for young professionals? Outside of my work, I'm wasting ... (135 words)

If he is too cool to talk to me is there any chance for me with this guy? What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3908 days ago

10 March 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - So there's this guy who I think I'm in love with, but he barely knows I exist. I see he staring at me all the time, but I don't know what to do. I want to talk to him, but he's too cool to ever talk to me. I messaged him, but all he did was read the message without resp... (66 words)

Boy friend says I have nothing to worry about. Is this something I should be worried about?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3908 days ago

10 March 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Last weekend my boyfriend met a girl when he went to hang out as his cousin's house. Basically she's a good friend of his cousin and his other friends. My boyfriend didn't even know she was going to be there because it's usually just an all guy kind of hangout where they pla... (305 words)

Should I? I want to confront my ex. We broke up 2 weeks ago. We dated for 4 years.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3907 days ago

10 March 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - I broke up with my girlfriend of 4 years two weeks ago and now I want to confront her. Following the break up, I came to the conclusion that she's been interested in someone else - a "friend" - while we were dating. She had in fact cancelled plans with me to be with him. She... (227 words)

How can I deal with feeling lonely all the time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2145 days ago

10 March 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - How can I deal with feeling lonely all the time? I'm taking five classes this semester, and I have to take one more class this summer before I graduate. I work two days a week. Any time left over is usually left for studying, projects, and assignments. I did join a club rela... (236 words)

I don't know how to end this relationship. What can I do? Feels like love mixed with hate

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3898 days ago

10 March 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - I'm currently 14 I've been in a relationship for several months now. We fight a lot I've tried to end the relationship but every time I try he hurts me badly. He would make me feel guilty about it and then he will try to make me laugh then ignore me for days. The next time ... (95 words)

After all this bitter history, it's hard to trust her good will. Why would my co-worker pick now to be civil?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3908 days ago

10 March 2014 (?) age 41-50 - Do you trust the good will of people you have a tainted history with? My experience is work related. I work in construction/development and I’m quitting a job I’ve had for about 3 years now, during which, I had to deal with a person at work who was a massive pain to me. She... (671 words)

He's leaving for three weeks and I'm terrified I'm going to lose him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3908 days ago

10 March 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, so me and my boyfriend have been together for about 7 months now. We have known each other for a long time and fell in love with each other. Im writing this because he is going to trucking school for 3 weeks and i am going to be stuck here almost 400 miles away from him... (156 words)

I want a fling with with this guy at work, but his mixed signals are hard to read!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3909 days ago

10 March 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I started a new job in a new city. There’s this guy at work who’s behaviour I can’t seem to work out. I heard through ‘water cooler’ gossip that he recently got out of a long term relationship. I understand that he’s adjusting to being single again. What I don’t understand... (309 words)

Has he backed off because he's about to move abroad for work, or is he just not into me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3908 days ago

10 March 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently found out that the guy I've been dating for 5 months is going to be moving across the world for a work project for at least several months. His current job is temporary as well, so, when he finishes his project, he doesn't know where he'll end up (he does scientific ... (307 words)

My LDR boyfriend and I chat often, but he occasionally disappears randomly!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3909 days ago

10 March 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My LDR boyfriend and I saw one another two months ago, and continued keeping contact ever since. We talk every day through text, but one time he did not respond to my message for three days. And then he responded as if nothing happened. I asked him about it and he apologized ... (129 words)

If I agree to marry him, can I make myself love him someday?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3906 days ago

10 March 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear friends.. I am 26 yrs old now. I know its time for me to get married.. And there is a man 36 yrs old, single who loves me so much. And wants to marry with me. I knew him from May last year. He is so kind and always on my side whenever i need him.. But the problem is i dont ... (239 words)