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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Dating an ex of a family member...right? wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3894 days ago

21 March 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Do you think it is wrong to fall in love with your cousin's EX husband? We have been friends since him and my cousin got married 6 years ago, and they've been divorced for 4 years. They have a 6 year old son together, who my cousin hasn't seen/had custody of for 5 years. ... (71 words)

I hate seeing this woman hurt and string my friend along. Is there anything I can do to help her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3884 days ago

21 March 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some advice. I have a friend who I am really close to. We share a lot with each other and have the type of friendship where we can speak openly. Recently she told me that she felt she could always come to me with a problem because I was honest. But recently there's... (649 words)

Is this much older man giving me signs that he wants me again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3895 days ago

21 March 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hes 47, im 23. Yes big age gap but we clicked in the first instance, i fell for him and him for me i believe. But we had a big falling out when i said i did not fancy him. I ws trying to protect him from office rumours, we fell out and he made my life hell. 6=8 months later ... (343 words)

When is it going to be my turn in dating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3895 days ago

21 March 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, Well, here I am, a 25 year old woman and I have never had a relationship with a man, in all these years have never even held a man's hand. I don't know what I can do to improve my lot in life, because I feel completely rejected by the entire male sex. To them, it seems li... (275 words)

I'm covered in body hair and feel depressed about it. Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3897 days ago

21 March 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - okay so this is awkward to talk about. Well im 15 years old and im hairy as hell! This is so un attractive specially when im around guys i jist keep my head down cuz i feel awkward. hair is covering 100% of my body! :( its actually a thick and i feel so awkward about it! ever... (148 words)

My ex boyfriend keeps going back and forth between telling me to move on and then contacting me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3897 days ago

21 March 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Everyone, My last post was an issue with the older ex boyfriend. Since the last post I've been ignoring him and now he's texting me and trying to get my attention. I ignored each text after another. Problem is I just can't understand what's going on in his head. ... (224 words)

While we were apart, he slept with a lot of girls, including one night stands and gave me an STI when we reconciled. How do I deal with this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3896 days ago

21 March 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everybody any advice will be appreciated. Me and my boyfriend had been together four years when I got into a university in a different country to do medicine. It's a five year course and I would be living four hours away from home. After much consideration I ... (552 words)

Are my friends right? Is my boyfriend not treating me right?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3894 days ago

21 March 2014 (F) age 30-35 - Dear Cupids out there, I really really need help :( please help me ...This is going to be a long post.. But I'm really lost at what to do. Ilove my boyfriend very much. And iI'm quite sure he loves me tpopular. He tells me he loves me. However, despite the word... (864 words)

My boyfriend has saved hundreds of images of women on his phone! Normal or no?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3338 days ago

21 March 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf of 7 months saves photos of random nameless girls in his phone. A few of them are pornographic but most of them are girls in their lingerie. It isn't just a few photos but hundreds of them. Is this normal? ... (42 words)

One or two of my friends have started organising social events without me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3897 days ago

21 March 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - dear uncles/aunts; I find myself getting slightly frustrated with some of my friends. Would like some opinions. I meet varied people from all over, travelling, work, hobbies etc, and every now and again I really meet someone I grow close to. I've always wanted to try... (516 words)

Should I be upset at my boyfriend for sending my friends on facebook friend request?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3897 days ago

21 March 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello I was wondering am I being silly, jealous or insecure? Should I be upset at my boyfriend for sending my friends on facebook friend request? Is this normal? He doesn't know them and I dont see the point.But could i be harboring feelings of jealousy? And could I be that ... (55 words)

How could a FWB be any good with a virgin?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3896 days ago

21 March 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to understand how an earth this is even possible for a guy to be attracted to and why? I've never, ever understood it! This guy I know, we've been talking for months and we've been out about three times and he asked if I wanted to be friends with benefits, he asked ... (538 words)

Over two years together and I still haven't met his family?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3893 days ago

21 March 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship with this man for two and half years. he was married before and up to now he haven't take me to his house or introduce me to his family. he come to my house, he even spend the night at my house, but now am confused if he is really serious with me ... (114 words)

Fell pregnant after a holiday fling, now he wants to meet to discuss my choice!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3893 days ago

21 March 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I fell pregnant after a holiday fling last year when my group of friend met a few guys at the same hotel. I decided to have an abortion because I wasn't in anyway ready for a child. Plus I couldn't see the child's father being supportive at all because all it we had was a short ... (288 words)

Facing the guy that hurt me, advice?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3897 days ago

21 March 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I posted not long ago about my situation with a boyfriend who I met at my works meal and he was our waiter, he was very full on telling me that he loves me after 2 weeks and took me to meet his mum then dissappears on me and I never hear from him again without him breaking ... (257 words)

Can long term relationships can work when a woman who is substantially richer than the man?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3896 days ago

21 March 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I wondered if you thought long term relationships can work when a woman who is substantially richer than the man? I am a very wealthy woman but I have not been able to find single guys to date who have the same level of wealth as me. My friends have a range i... (194 words)

How do I tell my family I'm pansexual?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3897 days ago

21 March 2014 (?) age 22-25 - Hi. Ok, so um, im a pansexual. This is something that has been known to me since I learned what it was. I have always been pansexual. I have told two out of my three friends , they are completely accepting. But I actually find it extremely annoying that I kinda have to hide ... (236 words)

How can I tell if he is genuinely interested...workplace love interest.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3895 days ago

21 March 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I work with a man who is divorced and single and we have worked together for over two years. He is 15 years older than me, is a single dad of a 9 year old, and through working with him for so long, I have seen that he has very good character. He is a doctor and has some control ... (352 words)

I'm nervous about meeting my boyfriend's family

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3897 days ago

21 March 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I have a question! I've been dating this guy for a while, and it's come up in conversation that it's time for me to meet his parents. He's already met mine, but I'm feeling very nervous about meeting his. He has explained to me that his younger brother has Aspe... (181 words)

Do I act crazy and tell my ex I love her or just move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3898 days ago

21 March 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I met my ex-gf for drinks for the first time in months. She actually asked me out. We work for the same company so it was more like a work stress relief. She felt like she wanted to clear the air between us. It was a rocky separation; but the main reason we separated was ... (284 words)

It hurts me to see my 2 friends together even though I love them both

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3896 days ago

21 March 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - Okay, well I have two close friends I love them both I dated both I still like both of this one's a boy the other a girl the boy asked if he could be friends with her as his friend I was okay with that but now... they like each other and everyday they seem to get more and more ... (101 words)

Boyfriend angry about an incident where he thought I was cheating and its destroying our relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3897 days ago

21 March 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Long story as short as possible. Been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years. We don't live together at the moment but have been talking about it once my lease is up. A few months ago we'd started fighting and this caused him to distance himself. We broke up for about 2 months ... (783 words)

I care what others think about my boyfriend's appearance!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2841 days ago

21 March 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 29 and my boyfriend of 8 months is 31. When we first started our relationship, it was one of the most intense feelings I've felt. Every since a couple of months ago, it was almost like I woke up from a dream and I've become very obsessed about his short stature and the ... (193 words)