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30-35,
*_Mae93
writes:I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and when we first started dating he would put stuff on his facebook without me having to ask him. But now it's like a war. I feel like its not fair to me that his ex's got sweet statuses and got to be his cover photo and stuff but he refuses to do the same for me. He says its his Facebook so it should only be about him. But yet he has profile pictures of him with his friends and cover photos with friends and ex's. Last night a girl called him he said it wasn't nothing. As from what I heard they was talking about when they worked in call centers. Then I heard him say "when you do text me you always say you don't know what to talk about" he tells me that they don't text or talk that much and that she randomly called him last night and he answered. I am a very jealous girlfriend and I respect him enough to not talk to other guys. But I'm not sure if he talks to other girls or not he says he don't but would a girl from his facebook just randomly call him? Does this sound like he's hiding me or what? I begged him to put a picture of us on his Facebook, he did but he hid it from his timeline. Earlier today I told him that he should put that he's in a relationship with me he did but a little while after he deleted his Facebook he said it was better then being bothered about it. I feel like he's constantly hiding me. He says he's not but he doesn't even take me around his family or friends. Sometimes he says he's not ready for me to be around them. And sometimes he says he doesn't know why I can't go around him. There's been a few times we was gonna go to his moms and I asked if I could go and he said yea but then when he asks his mom if i'ts okay if I came and she says yea he changes his mind. Idk what else to do, we do love each other because we've been through so much in the past year that would have broke most couples up but we got through it.but should I just break up with him or deal with it?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (31 March 2014):
 you say "we love each other" but you can't speak for him and you should not. He does NOT love you.
Men in love shout it from the roof tops. They want EVERYONE to know they are with that ONE special girl... if he refuses to commit on facebook and would rather "delete" his account. (and i"m betting he just blocked you vs deleting the account) than share his status that in your age range says TONS about how he does not feel about you.
remember actions speak louder than words.
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reader, Adeboyefa  +, writes (30 March 2014):
 Post pictures of the two of you on your page and tag him. You may also tag all his female Facebook friends as well.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (30 March 2014):
 It is obvious from your post that you are unhappy, therefore my advice would be not to stay in a relationship if you don't feel it is right. My personal opinion about social networking is that your relationship doesn't need to be there for the world to see as long as he treats you well, however it does sound suspicious to me that he keeps you completely away from it and that he doesn't involve you with his friends and family. You need to look out for yourself here. Talk to him and be honest with him about how you feel. You are obviously unhappy and the relationship cannot stay like this so tell him how you feel and if things cant change then I suggest you move forward with your life. Good luck.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (30 March 2014):
 I'm not at all familia with just how Facebook works but from I hear and see of it. it's sort of like telling a trusted friend a secret and then having that friend yell the secret into a loud speaker system all over town and the planet. If pricacy is your thing then tell it to the NSA...they'll do better than FB
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reader, alexsaphire +, writes (30 March 2014):
 It sounds more that you love him but he doesn't know where his loyalties lie does he give more attention to those girls then he does you? talk about some of these girls watch his reaction and if you ask about one watch for signs if he lies he might not reply right away because he would be thinking of what to say or he wont make a lot of eye contact when he talks or he might smirk a little when he is telling you that he doesn't really talk to this girl much if he shows these signs well he would be lying to you it seems like this relationship isn't really healthy for you but I don't know much about dating to be honest I'm 14 I hope I helped some
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