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Archived questions from: 11 March, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I feel like everyone stares at me and it's making me uncomfortable!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3906 days ago

11 March 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - Howdy everyone :) I'm Courtney and I'm a girl. Well, I have always noticed this my whole life that random people just stare at me. It makes very uncomfortable and nervous. Whenever I go anywhere people will just stop and stare! Even when I'm with friends or with my family even! ... (108 words)

His texts are becoming less frequent and he always leaves the conversations hanging. Lost cause?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3904 days ago

11 March 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I began seeing a guy at the start of this year after meeting him on an online dating site. Now we immediately hit it off and in the back and forth of our conversation we figured out that he worked in the company I was just starting in. Things developed anyway and here ... (264 words)

Should I 'go there' with this older friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3906 days ago

11 March 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Basically I need some advice as to whether or not I should ‘go there’ with a friend. So, I have known this guy since I was 20, I am now 24 and he is 40. We met through work and were good friends. After I left my job, we did not speak for a while, and then he contacted me... (342 words)

My parents are controlling and I don't know whether to be myself or what they want

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3906 days ago

11 March 2014 (?) age 26-29 - Okay guys, so I'm having an issue with stress at the minute - well, I have been for a while, but it seems like it's worse these days. I'm at uni and the work is all fine, I couldn't be any happier with the work, it's my social life and other situations that are stressing me... (436 words)

Family standards and Norms: I feel uncomfortable with how my husband's female teenage cousins behave around him. Am I over-reacting?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3380 days ago

11 March 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I know lots of families have different "norms" for clothing so I'm wondering if I'm over reacting. My husbands teenage cousins seem to have no shame even when he's around. They will walk around in just a bra or braless (with a shirt so their nipples poke right through. or with ... (332 words)

My crush invited me to her wedding!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3904 days ago

11 March 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - So I get emails from a girl who I used to hang out with a year ago (She knows I had feelings for her). I asked her whats new in her life since we had not been communicating for a while, and she says she is getting married and would like if I came to the wedding. Not sure what ... (91 words)

Should my friend's fiance pay rent or not?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 3904 days ago

11 March 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so my friend and i are thinking of moving in together. Her fiance stays over 5-6 dys a week. I think its fair that he contrubutes to sum of the bills but she says no. She says firstly there is no way in hell he will pay as he dont earn that much and thar they work in the day ... (197 words)

When we're apart, I want sex, when we're together, I don't! Is this normal for a pregnant woman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3906 days ago

11 March 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 26 weeks pregnant with my first baby. My fiancée and I live in different towns and see each other on weekends. My problem's I always miss our sex during d week (when he's not with me), but when we're together I just loose interest (want no sex). Is this normal for a ... (57 words)

Should I call the manager to see I have the job?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3898 days ago

11 March 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - What should I do? Do I wait or just call? So I went for a nursery nurse interview and the manager said she liked me and ask me to come back for a day trial even though I couldn't really give good answers to 1 or 2 questions. Anyway I went for the trial, I did an observat... (209 words)

I'm a wounded warrior with a broken heart. Advice, please!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3900 days ago

11 March 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - I been married 3yrs this September, im a wounded warrior i have some medical and mental issues. The wife and i had an argument i left at 2am to stay with my brother a week or two goes by and she claims she gonna start to see other people. Bout two weeks later total of month and ... (220 words)

How do I save my two and a half year, broken-up relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3900 days ago

11 March 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I would like to get some advice on how to deal with a very young, very confused man, who was the best person in the world a couple months ago, madly in love with me, and then suddenly started to doubt everything and to block any form of feeling, therefore becoming a complete ... (338 words)

Said that she loves me but isn't in love with me -- could this change?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3906 days ago

11 March 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - I feel in a strange place at the moment. My girlfriend left me and I honestly thought she was the one. She said she loves me but is not in love with me? DO you think this could change over time? I have agreed to give her time and space to think but I think I am just delaying... (108 words)

He broke up with me but I don't feel like it's over

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3904 days ago

11 March 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I have recently been dumped my commitment phobic boyfriend. We were together for over 2 years, lived together, travelled a lot and I knew from day one he had a lot of emotional baggage. Now he's left me, but he still texts every morning and evening where our text conversatio... (95 words)

We went out on one date but he hasn't seemed interestd in another

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3906 days ago

11 March 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone So I am just feeling strange about this one guy with whom I have had a few dates and wanted to get some objective opinions. Right, so I met this guy and then we proceeded to chat online for a long time (months, in fact), really getting to know each other. Then... (345 words)

The man I'm dating says he's not ready for a relationship

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3904 days ago

11 March 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating this man for over a month and I must say, it has been great. We got on really well and there is chemistry. But the problem is, last year he got out of a long term relationship and told me he's not ready to date (despite him telling me he wanted to only s... (248 words)

His contact list has a photo of his ex wife but not one for me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3904 days ago

11 March 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm hurt and confused, would you feel the same if you noticed your husband has a contact photo attached to his ex wife, his ex crush and even a platonic female friend but none for you. Does this mean I'm not pretty enough or not as special? His ex was definitely not a... (169 words)

My girlfriend said I was over committing and broke up with me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3906 days ago

11 March 2014 (M)

age - I kissed my girlfriend on the lips for the first time 1 1/2 months after we started dating. Two days later She dumped me. She said I was over committing. She said she felt I was over committing and she became uncomfortable. What does that mean. She decided we shouldn’t ... (831 words)

He wants me to sell my home and buy a bigger house but his drinking concerns me

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3869 days ago

11 March 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello there - Am after some advice. I am 40 years old and am living with my partner and our 6 month old baby. To cut things short my partner has always struggled with alcohol but is a loving partner and a wonderful Dad and never drinks at home. We have been togethe... (581 words)

How should I go about this without seeming needy or desperate?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3904 days ago

11 March 2014 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi folks! Background: I met a girl about a month ago(someone new to my University). I immediately obtained her number and her Facebook, and on the very same day I walked her home after class. A bit over a week ago I took her out to lunch, which we both enjoyed very much. ... (303 words)

Do men have sex with women they aren't attracted to?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3907 days ago

11 March 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - This is a question for the men: would you sleep with someone you weren't attracted to? I was recently shocked to find out that a very attractive male acquaintance of mine had a one night stand with a very unattractive woman. This has left me completely perplexed, si... (105 words)

It's late now, isn't it? We'll never get married, will we?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3904 days ago

11 March 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been living with my so-called fiancé for 10 years. We have 2 kids. Originally we planned to get married right away and went so far as to fill out all the paperwork but never ended up having a ceremony because of my student loan debt. Flash forward ten years, I now have ... (361 words)

What should I make of these signs, please interpret for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3907 days ago

11 March 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - She said she's afraid she may like it too much when we discussed lesbian sex and her trying it. She is a friend of mine. We have a weird friendship. She loves me caressing her hair and back daily even while nude. She's allowed me to put my crotch on her back while sitting in ... (198 words)

Why hasn't a girl wanted to date me yet?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3903 days ago

11 March 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - Is it wrong to ask/wonder when, how, if I'll ever meet a girl who wants to get to know me, date, hold hands, etc...? It's coming up to my birthday and I've just been thinking more about it since summer is right around the corner and it would be nice to perhaps finally have a ... (115 words)

We used to laugh together but now I'm not laughing with him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3906 days ago

11 March 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I tell my boyfriend that he is seriously hurting my feelings? We've always been the best of friends for almost 5 years, the kind of friends that could cut up together, with sarcasm, and humor. We've said some of the most rudest, meanest things to each other, and laugh... (215 words)