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writes:Dear Cupid, I hate to say this but I find myself really jealous over this other woman, who is friends with my boyfriend. She is very popular with men, and she has dated a lot of people and is very much a big flirt. Every guy and a lot of my friends are all over her. She has actually said before that she loves being a s^ut. I don't know why a girl would say this about herself and I just don't like someone like this to be friends with my boyfriend.I just don't understand why everyone goes for her. She cheats on the guys she has dated and doesn't seem to have much respect for herself. And the thing is is that she flirts with my boyfriend when she talks with him. I've seen her call my boyfriend hot and she has asked him personal questions about his private parts. I know it's not right to make judgements but she just worries me and bothers me a lot. I don't know if this could be just jealously or if she is someone I should keep an eye on and be worried about. How can I stop being so jealous and bothered by her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2013): maybe it's not her..it's him. if he allows it then he possibly has slept with her you unknowingly.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (8 May 2013):
 Jealousy is an emotion rooted in insecurity. Are you sure you are jealous of her? Do you feel insecure with your boyfriend and the relationship you have with him?
You say she is friends with your boyfriend… were they friends before you knew him?
You don’t understand why the boys want to be with a slut? It’s easy… warm wet holes for them…
You say SHE worries you, but what you mean is that you are worried that your boyfriend will cheat on you with her right? Because if that’s not a concern why does her behavior bother you so?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2013): Why would you be jealous of a woman we don't respect and see as easy meat?
Being bothered by her is understandable if she's whoring herself to your boyfriend but if you trust him and he thinks she's a dick then you have no reason to worry.
OP understand one thing, she's not liked and she's not popular she's just a warm hole open to any guy and most guys are going to think with their dicks when it comes to her.
In fact the only guys who "like" her are vultures out for an easy lay. OP it's perfectly acceptable for women to sleep around, to embrace their sexuality and to express it with as many partners as they want. But if a woman (or man) does that without respect for others then no one respects them nor likes them. They live an empty existence and all they have to offer people is their pussy. It's very hard to get people to see past that and it generally leads to a life of emptiness and a pattern of disappointment. Plus when she gets older if she ever decides to settle down then she's going to find it tough to find a good stable guy who doesn't have a problem with how she has acted.
Most guys these days can accept a promiscuous past, but most guys aren't stupid enough to accept a promiscuous past of a woman who lied and cheated all the way through.
She's going to be very lonely, and probably already is OP. Women don't trust her and guys don't trust her as anything other than a fuck puppet.
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