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*hristina0311
writes:Hey everyone. I'm just trying to get some opinions on a problem. Would you say it's worth it to stay in a relationship with a guy when a female friend of his does nothing but start trouble? Me and my boyfriend have a good relationship and I really love him but my boyfriends female friend absolutely hates me and likes to start trouble in my relationship. Whenever I've been around her she will either be rude to me or just completely ignore and avoid me. The thing is she's so nice to my boyfriend and his friends though so I don't understand what the problem is. She always texts and chats on facebook with my boyfriend, sometimes even basically starts flirting with him and she gets really involved whenever my boyfriend and I have had a fight and will tell him he should dump me and stuff.I really want to be with my boyfriend but I can't continue like this. She's good friends with his friends so it's not like I can do anything about her, she's around him a lot. It hurts me that he continues to be friends with someone who does thisWhat are your thoughts on what I should do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2013): Honestly, I think you shouldn't care what she does. SHE is not a part of YOUR relationship. If you loved your boyfriend, her "trouble" shouldn't matter. Is he standing up for you? Does he say no when she suggests he leave you? It's not only you, but he needs to understand to listen and protect you and your relationship from her because she obviously has an interest in him.
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reader, synchrohobbit +, writes (9 May 2013):
 This is a tough situation...she obviously has a romantic interest in your boyfriend, even if he doesn't at all, but directly bringing it up with him might seem like jealousy. I wouldn't talk about the fact that you think she is flirting with him, or outright saying you don't like her, but I might ask him why he thinks she isn't nice to you. If you get along okay with his other friends, point that out. If this is a good relationship you definitely shouldn't end it, but you will have to explore it.
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