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male
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:My long distance girlfriend and i recently broke up a week ago and did not talk or text for the last week. We have recently began casual texting again and I feel like I don't want to lose our connection because she is still very special to me. Its her 40th birthday next week and I am sending her 2 gifts. One is a pair of earings I have exchanged(that she wanted) for ones I had given her while we were togteher. The other is a matching black onyx ring that I just bought for her. It seems she will not receieve alot of gifts on her birthday and I thought receiving this ring from me will make her happy although we're techinically not back together. Does it seem too desperate on my part and will she be uncomfortable receiving it. My gut tells me she'll love the thought and think about how special I am to her. What are your thoughts? I am interetsed in a women's insight in this case considering the circumstances. Thanks
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (9 May 2013):
 you know her better than we do.
if you are giving her the gift to make her happy and not expecting it to reunite you, then give it in the spirit of giving and not with any ulterior motives.
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reader, Got Issues  +, writes (8 May 2013):
 It all sounded nice right up to "My gut tells me she'll love the thought and think about how special I am to her." That tells me your main motivation for sending her the presents is that you think she'll want to get back together with you.
Send her the gifts, I'm sure she'll be happy whatever your reasons for sending them, but don't expect anything from her.
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