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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I've been seeing this guy. We have sex and we go out to dinner and to the cinema. Sometimes we just chill and there's nothing sexual to it. He stays at least twice a week and is always cuddling me and kissing me. However he says he's not ready for a proper relationship and it's nice to have good company and a laugh and fun. We both agreed not to sleep with anyone else or date anyone else which to be honnest he is with me every free moment he gets or he is at work. I'm confused as to if he really doesn't want a relationship or if he means just not now because he is with me an awful lot.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2013): Honestly,
From a guy's perspective, he's looking for someone else. All guys want sex, especially free sex. Your his free meal. You feed his needs of sex, food, fun, and friendship. You don't satisfy though. Like eating a lot to get full, but same old boring food because he can't afford any better but dreams about better when eating you as a dish a.k.a. sex.
Guys will only commit with someone they prize. His friends probably dog him all the time about you. That shows that he's just using you for sex. Don't lie to yourself! Many fish is the sea girl.
Leave, forget, and better yourself. Also remember to find a nice guy who will understand your mistakes, like this one. Good luck!
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reader, oldbag +, writes (9 May 2013):
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Ask him, you have invested a lot into this non-relationship so until you know what he wants in future you won't know if you should move on or wait.
No more sex with him though.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2013): Simple, just ask him. OP us guys are cool in that way, if you want to know something just ask.
Worried about Guy Code? That's easy the only thing that is a yes is "yes" everything else is "no".
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