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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:okay so i met this guy online he is like 4 years older.. we texted then skyped we hit it off we laughed and he liked my company that night we talked on the phone for like 4 hours, and we talked about everything he told me how many hook ups and relationships and i told him how many relationships i had which is one i know i'm slow.. and so we skyped again, we got along and then we met in person.. but he was ify about it cause my age and he told me he just got out a relationship and he didn't want to confuse me so he said it may be just one time thing, so we hung out we got along great we talked about weird crap lol like aliens and he told me some rough stuff i did to and he liked my company he would bully me in a cute way lol like tickling me and saying funny things. but then he asked for a kiss on the cheek, i did and then kiss on the lips and we kissed. he constantly kept kissing me which was good i only touched his you know and he saw a little part of my butt but that is it and we hung out his friends called him to go out but he didn't cause i think he stayed with me and we were so calm and relaxed lol and he notice that i wouldn't look in his eyes a lot and i put my hands on my mouth cause i was shy lol he would call me out on it. but anyways he still calls and he even said maybe we will hang out again this week so how can i keep him on his toes and make him fall or is it too late? should i let it go or keep going
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (25 March 2013):
 I think it sounds like it is going well, stop worrying and over-thinking things!
You cant 'make' him do anything, and I dont see why you should give up either because nothing bad has happened. Just meet up with him again, keep dating him for a while and see what happens.
Dont have sex until you have met up with him a few times (ideally at least 4 or 5 times, if not more) so you can be sure that he is interested in you as a person rather than just wanting one thing. If he just wants sex he will push you for sex the next time you meet up, or maybe the 3rd time - and if he doesnt get what he wants then he will stop bothering with you. So dont have sex with him for as long as possible really, it will test how much he wants to be with you compared to how much he wants sex.
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