A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi,I have been seeing this girl for a few months. When I first started talking to her I was with my ex, I didn't have any intentions of doing anything with the girl I'm seeing now at the time, we were just really good friends. When we first started talking she told me she was bi and she had not long had an experience with a guy after her ex girlfriend. About a week later she told me she was fully gay, which I thought was odd as she had just told me she was bi . We work together and I've seen how she acts around guys, I've confronted her and she says she's just being nice to the customers but it's different with guys. I really like this girl but I feel like she's confused about girls and I don't want to get hurt in the long run. I'm not sure what to do and I need some advice. Am I just being paranoid? Thanks
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (26 March 2013):
 I think you should be careful.
I'm bisexual but to be honest my emotional attachments in terms of long term relationships have always been with men.
it sounds like she's young and still figuring out what she wants to be when she grows up.
tread carefully...guard your heart.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2013): Hi , I'd say be very careful around this girl,she sounds like a heartbreaker. Changing her mind about whether she's gay or bi , maybe she wanted to just flirt with you. She sounds like she likes to flirt, and although there's nothing wrong with flirting whilst your not in a relationship, it does raise alarm bells for how 'into' you she is. I would see her as a friend and not a love intrest for now and if things are to happen they will happen, but keep your guards up. It may be that she is just being friendly to these guys, give her the benefit of the doubt, but I'd tread carefully.
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