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Will my husband be able to tell that I'm not a virgin?

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Question - (25 March 2013) 8 Answers - (Newest, 26 March 2013)
A female India age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I had sex once before 5 years....i never had sex after that...will my husband know if am a virgin?....

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A male reader, reed India +, writes (26 March 2013):

there are alot of reasons for breaking hymen, swimming and sports are some reason, he cant accuse u directly for pre broken hymen, but try to keep your history to yourself, untill u satisfy him on bed and in life he will not think abt it, show lots of love, flater him, love him as he is your first.... best of luck...

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A female reader, deirdre Ireland +, writes (25 March 2013):

forget 2 posters who told you to tell him, you dont need to as there is no definite way to know if someone is a virgin. he will not be able to tell and it will be better not to tell him. kind regards

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2013):

If he has never been with a virgin before,then no he will not know, and no you don't need to tell him. Just keep quite and that is that.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2013):

Not unless he catches a sexual disease from you.

It's wrong to lie about being a virgin. But it's even more wrong to lie without getting yourself tested.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2013):

No, he will not be able to tell. Don't even worry about it.

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A female reader, Intrigued3000 Canada +, writes (25 March 2013):

Intrigued3000 agony auntWhen I was at university (a long time ago), I had a friend who used to pretend that she was a virgin with each new guy that she dated. The men never suspected a thing, so I would say no, your husband will not be able to know.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2013):

Oh yes he would know, there will be no hymen. Why do you want to start a marriage based on deception? What if he does find out after marriage?

YOu need to be honest. How would you feel if you were deceived into marrying someone!

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (25 March 2013):

person12345 agony auntNo he won't be able to tell.

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