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writes:i am having an affair with a married guy but i didnt really ask him if he is married. i would say he is because he doesnt tell me where he lived and i cant contact him during night time, weekdays and holidays as well. i have falled in love with him and we always have sex everytime we meet. i realise that i am madly in love with him and if i try to forget him by not texting him or replying his text i cant stop myself to text him back. it cause me so much pain everytime i try to do it. the happiness and pain is a cycle and i dont want these to happen. its seems that it is killing me. as of the moment we havent seen each other for a month now and i hope i can survive with this feeling of my heart...broken hearted. please advise me..and cheer me up..i need somebody to advice me. i am alone here in australia because i am a student and i dont have relatives to talk to.sincerely yoursmarissa
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reader, MikeEa1 +, writes (25 March 2013):
 I really get where you are. These things happen. But you have to get your sensible head on and move forward. If you can't have a relationship where you are both available then all is not good. When you get a long way into a relationship lots of smaller things cause problems. something like this is a deal breaker pretty early on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2013): Hi, this will end in you being alone and heart broken. Look at it this way, do you feel good when he is around for thta short period ...answer is yes. When he is gone and you alone....u are in a terrible state of depression and missing him while he is having sex with another woman and playing house.
Does that few minutes of pleasure outway your pain. NO. So stop the contact and keep busy , find friends move on. If he can do without u , so can you. Block all forms of contact.
You need to open yourself up to someone that is free to love u. Why do u put up with the crumbs that he throw u? Sooner or later when his wife finds out you will be discarded like yesterdays garbage and it will hurt a lot worst. Dump him and take control. You can do it,stop now.
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