A
female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes: Dear Cupid,I am a young single woman looking for real love but the wrong type of men seem to keep approaching me they are MARRIED and to me it's not a good thing.Five married men have come my way so far I don't know what they see in me that makes them believe I would cheat with them.We laugh and talk but one guy out of the crowd seems to be more aggressive his eyes watches me from head to toe and flirts with me all the time. I like his attention I not going to lie but it's morally wrong I ask myself where was he at when I really needed love like this.And to know that he is MARRIED it hurts me deeply.All the compliments the whole nine yards this guy really makes me smile but he is MARRIED:( help
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reader, AuntyEm +, writes (25 March 2013):
If you are looking for love, put yourself where you have a greater chance of meeting single people, try a singles club or a paid dating site which asks you to do a personality test.
I have had advances from a few married men in my time and I nipped it in the bud quickly by asking how their wife and kids are and if that failed, I'd just ignore them because they can be a real pest!
It seems you are enjoying the attention but it has nothing to do with any devil, it has to do with being middle aged and perhps a little lonely and grabbing what you can.
Reshape the playing field, only engage with single people, that way, if you fall in love with someone, you can take things further. Married men are a waste of precious time.
Good luck xx
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