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female
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22-25,
*amelia81
writes:anyway there is this boy ive had a crush on for 3 years. i texted him that he was hot and sexy. he wants me to do sexual things with him. then i made this mistake of telling him i was on my period (im 13 hes 14) then he texted me back saying "what he wanted me to do is wrong and that it was his fault for getting me into this" ive tried to tell him it was my fault because i told him he was hot and sexy. but he said he would have asked me no matter what i said. now hes blocked me on instgram and he wont respond to any of my texts. and at church he usually sits right in front of me. but he moved to the back pew where i cant see him. whenever i got eye contact with him he would stare seriously and calmly then we'd look away. i told him that my sister wanted to him to come outside and he just nodded (not smiling) and pointed out the window. a friend of mine told me i should corner him and tell him how much i love him and just tell him i want to be friends (which i do) and that it was my fault as much as his. please help
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (26 March 2013):
 do not corner him
do not tell him how much you love him
do not text him or email him
he asked you to do sexual things and the proper response should have been "ewww we are way too young to even know of such things" not "i can't cause i'd be a slut if I wasn't on my period" which is how it gets interpreted.
you need to let this go and not worry about it...
you didn't do anything wrong and you are not at fault... this is how young people learn to navigate the world... by trial and error.
stop sexting it's illegal at your age anyway.
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reader, TrancedRhythmEar  +, writes (25 March 2013):
 Dont make this a big deal. Boys at ur age are unpredictable n shy n all kinds of things. Its not worth ur energy or attention to deal with this.
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reader, uzer  +, writes (25 March 2013):
You're both too young for this kind of stuff. Please don't worry yourself about boys and sexual things at such a young age. This boy probably won't even matter to you in a year. You'll see how silly this is.
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