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writes:my friend used to have a pshychological crush on a person and a few people knew it. and then an arranged marriage landed her with his brother.. she really loves her husband and his brother means nothing to her now... but should she tell this to her husband who doesnot know a thing yet ..does he need to know? she cant depict his reaction. he never asked her anything like this and is really possessive. what if he gets to know from somewhere else?she has been married for two months. she is 20 and her husband is 26
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2013): Hi, don't say anything or he would feel she settled for him because she cold not get the brother. Also its in her interest deny it if anyone mentions it as he will hold over.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2013): No, it's not a problem so there's no reason to make it one.
If anyone mentions anything like that ever she can always just say she found him attractive in the past but doesn't now because she married the more handsome brother.
Say nothing, it's completely irrelevant.
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reader, NORA B  +, writes (23 January 2013):
Your friend loves and is happy with her husband and that is all that counts. NO POINT AT ALL in telling her husband that she had a crush on his brother. I would serve no useful prospose Best Luck. Nora B.
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