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writes:Hello, I have a girlfriend and she has an ex.During our time of being together, I have already gotten over her relationship with her ex. Now here's my question: Is it normal to still feel some pain whenever I see photos of her and her ex together? I love her and everything, and I believe that I have already accepted her past; but seeing photos just gives me that weird feeling. Anyway, is that normal? Thnx!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2013): Very normal! Just remember, she would still be with him if she cared about him still. But she doesn't - she cares about YOU. Don't let your insecurity take over and negatively affect this relationship. Just focus on the present. I've dealt with this with both my previous boyfriends. The more secure you feel in yourself, the easier it will get. Good luck!
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reader, fi_the_tree  +, writes (23 January 2013):
 Yes, this is very normal, but as you said, you have accepted her past so in time these feelings will go away. Where did you see these pictures? If they are in plain sight then maybe ask her to put them away somewhere so you can't see them.
Good luck
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