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writes:My boyfriend of two years is distant, cold, doesn't call or text for 3 weeks now because of something I said but I apologised.I think he's always finding faults in me, even the tiniest. I think its rather childish, he always does this, he goes quiet then comes back again just like that.I am fed up, but its hard for me to let him go. I need serious advise please. Thank you!
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (24 January 2013):
 P.S. Don't discard those undies....'cuz there's always the chance that one of us idiot guys in gonna behave this very same way again, in the future.... and you'll need to go through that exorcism that I described earlier....
Good luck, again....
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (24 January 2013):
This is easy.... You pick out a pair of panties... and label them your "big girl" panties.... and put them on.
Then, you puff out your chest and say to yourself... WHAT could there possibly be, for me, in this dysfunctional relationship that I have with (his name here)??????
Then you say.... "Well, that was easy enough. That drip is gone... I can take off these undies and get on with my life...." Then, do so....
Good luck....
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reader, dcgirl15 +, writes (23 January 2013):
I agree with everything Kenny said and have my own bit to add: either he has severe emotional/anger problems (in which case, I would seriously consider whether or not you want to be stuck with someone like that for even longer) or he doesn't care that much about you, wanders off, and then returns when he gets bored. People that are in healthy relationships and care about their significant other just don't treat someone the way he's treating you.It's clear that you know something's wrong. My advice? Leave him before he leaves you. That way, your confidence is still in tact and you don't have deal with a blow to the self esteem on top of a break up.I hope this works out for you. You deserve to be happy.
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reader, kenny  +, writes (23 January 2013):
 I think that this relationship has run its course to be honest. You need to be strong and find the strenth and courage to walk away from this relationship. He is acting like a complete child going cold for weeks on end then coming back to you, then finds faults with you, what a jerk. i know its hard, but walking away is your best bet, you can do alot better than this guy. There are guys out there that will show you the love and respect that you so rightly deserve.
Good luck
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