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female
age
30-35,
*adedpearl
writes:I don't know what it is but sex just does not feel enjoyable to me. I am beginning to think it is just my age. I am only 20 and I hear a lot of the time women do not hit their sexual peak until they are well into their 30s and 40s. Ladies, is that true? With my experience, I definitely believe men enjoy sex far more than women do. I've seen porn before and I honestly believe those girls are faking their enjoyment. I cannot really describe my encounters as mind blowing knock your socks off kind of sex. Sex does not feel THAT great. The best way for me to describe it is I feel like my vagina goes numb after a while of thrusting. The only time I feel a little feel good enjoyment is when he is in me from behind. I still have those urges to have sex and I like to when I am with someone long term because of that feeling of "closeness" you get afterwards. I just wish it felt as good as everyone makes it out to be. Any thoughts?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2013): Does your bf give you enough foreplay? Does he wait until you're good and ready, or does he plunge in right away?
Also, how rough is he? Ask him to be more gentle and see if that helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2013): I don't have any advice, but I totally feel the same as you in that it's never been that great for me either. Unfair eh?!
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (23 January 2013):
 it's never been the be all to end all for me either although I will admit that at age 35 or so it started getting better...
I do not orgasm from penetration ever. It takes a skilled in oral partner to bring me to orgasm so I never expect it.
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reader, marypoppin  +, writes (23 January 2013):
Well i'm in my 20's and I've found that sex, and good sex, has alot to do with how you approach it. One needs to see sex as a road trip in a new country rather than a pit stop at Mc Donalds. One needs to get acclimatised to sex. What works in porn won't work on you cause firstly its staged and secondly we're individuals and our preferences are different. Get comfortable with your body, understand what makes you feel good. Start enjoying sex, foreplay, and experiment. But remember be safe!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2013): Yes definitely better for me in my 30s than when I was in my 20s. Could have been due to the relationships I was in though rather than the age.
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