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writes: So I've got a problem. I'm in love with this totally awesome girl. We're both bisexual and we are dating. I've spoiled her rotten on Valentine's Day and her birthday and what not. We've been dating for like a year now I think and my family knows about it. All of them but like 3 people are against it pretty much. I don't care though. I just need advice on if I should take it to the next level (not sex, neither of us are ready for that yet) or not. I really care about her and I could even see us having a future together. Should I tell her how deeply I care for her and that I want to start getting more serious with her?? Please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2014): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks a lot for the feedback but she broke up with me. Her mom didn't know she was bisexual and would have taken EVERYTHING from her; phones, lap top, etc.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you everyone for your advice. :)
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reader, R1 +, writes (24 February 2013):
only you know if you are ready to take it to the next level. if it feels right then go with it. Love is about how you feel not what others think.
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reader, Atsweet1 +, writes (24 February 2013):
Yes telling her would be good. That you may want to be exclusive and want more in the future. Communication in friendships and relationships make since it makes it easier smooth landing with thoughts and feelings also if not someone else may be telling her. Plus if she don't think your interested in more she may move on to someone more interested or that seems to be more interested.
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