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Can a correctional officer visit her boyfriend at her previous job she just got fired from because of the relationship?

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Question - (24 February 2013) 7 Answers - (Newest, 25 February 2013)
A female United States age 36-40, *ustme2013 writes:

Can a correctional officer visit her boyfriend at her previous job she just got fired from because of the relationship

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2013):

No, I am a former CO and I cant visit my inmate bf. I got fired when they found out.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2013):

Was he an inmate? I don't see how else the "relationship" could lead to you getting fired while he's allowed to stay there...

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (24 February 2013):

Honeypie agony auntWere the GF fired because relationships between correctional officers are not allowed or was there another reason?

Honestly, I think I would NOT want to go visit, after all HE is at work.

He might want to ask a supervisor this question as it may change from place to place.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2013):

Is it you or your baby daddy's new girlfriend who just got fired?

http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-should-i-do-about-this-baby-dad.html

If it's new girlfriend who just got fired then it's none of your business whether she visits him at work or not (so don't get any ideas about ratting her out to baby daddy's boss, getting him fired too isn't going to help you win him back and will only hurt your child) and if it's you then I'm sure baby daddy doesn't want you making a scene in front of the inmates, giving them ammunition to use against him.

Besides, considering all the drama to which you're subjecting him, I'm guessing he looks forward to the peace and tranquility that spending several hours patrolling cell blocks teeming with rabid, caged felons provides him.

Instead of asking leading questions while giving absolutely no background information in hopes of eliciting by default the exact answer you so desperately want to hear, why not listen to previous advice, accept that baby daddy has moved on to a new girlfriend (whom he will probably also dump as soon as he knocks her up) and start devoting all your energies to being a good mother to YOUR CHILD!

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A female reader, R1 United Kingdom +, writes (24 February 2013):

R1 agony auntLegally I would say yes you can. doubt it will be easy though. Rules against that kind of thing are in place for a reason and people don't like it when they are broken.

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A female reader, justme2013 United States +, writes (24 February 2013):

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Drug charges and probation violation she got locked up also

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2013):

To be honest I dont know. It depends on how bad the situation turned out. If she has enough guts to go back, then let her go with her head held high. If they are still boyfriend and girlfriend any, it means the relationship is something. I hope this answers your question. :)

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