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*hedimestorepoet
writes:Hi me and my boyfriend (who I have been seeing for afew months now and before that was a very close friend of mine) have decided to have sex for the first time. We've planned to go out for a meal with friends and then stop a hotel for the night (to avoid a long journey home) and I put forward the idea about sex. I'm a virgin but he isn't (he has brought up sex briefly before but respected my wishes not to). But now I do feel that I am ready and after waiting with many people before that he is the right person. Physically he has always managed to get me turned on enough (although he has some trouble actually getting me off but I don't mind too much). We have sorted out protection and everything like that but I was just wondering if anyone had any advice for first time sex ? I'm a little nervous but also excited so just wanted to know if there was anything I need to know or do so it is doesn't go wrong. Thank you in advance ! Marie x Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2013): I think if you're 16 or over you are within legal age anyway its all down to the person on how ready they are or not. If it was your idea and you are ready, go for it but don't just do it because you have a boyfriend and that he has had sex before so you think y
ou should. If he likes you enough he will wait til you are completely ready. Ypu already have a good head on your shoulders by thinking about protection. Just go with the flow. I was 18 for my first time. I'm proud of that. It shouldn't go wrong if you both feel right with eachother and ypu can stop at anytime if it doesn't feel right.
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