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anonymous
writes:this has been aggravating me so bad lately.my boyfriend and i just got back together friday. were taking things so. since we rushed into things when we first started dating. when hes with his friends he doesnt text me but when hes with me he's texting his friends. i dont really see him that much because we live in different cities we did live together but all we did was just fight. so we decided we should take things slow. here lately he hardly texts me back, he says that hes not really on his phone that much anymore. but when he's with me he's on it . i told him about how i was feeling he said he understood but he's still doing it. my friends say that i need to break up with him cause he doesn't care about at all and if he did he would be texting all day and wanna talk to me all day even while hes with his friends. i really love him, but should i listen to my friends and break up with him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2013): I personally cant understand why him not texting you all the time is a huge problem. I actually hate when my partner is constantly texting all the time, it is disruptive, distracting and can get really annoying. He may be feeling that you expecting him to be texting all day all the time is you being a bit clingy. Maybe if you try to approach it from another angle and tell him calmly that you understand he needs time with his friends to relax, and in future when you know he is with his friends you will stop yourself from texting him while you know he is with them, and you would appreciate if when you are both having time together that he stops from texting his friends in return. Try that compromise before deciding he doesnt love you or before breaking up.
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