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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have a friend that is really beautiful and funny. she's one if the closet people to me and I trust her with everything.sometimes when I'm with her I think about doing sexual things with her like eating her or letting her screw me. I have never really liked girls or whatever but I have tried a few things with girls but have regretted it. I just don't know if she is like leading me on or making me feel this way . every time I see her she comes and gives me a long hug and says she loves me, she dosent really have relationships or bfs but when she does they're short and meaningless. I need help !!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2013): Try not to create things in your head reading too much into someone saying they love you. That could mean only as a friend. You are attracted to her and your hopes are high that you'll make her your girlfriend.I always ask young gay people to keep a safe distance from their attractive "straight" friends. They almost always end up becoming infatuated, or growing a gay crush. They turn every hug and kiss into a possible gay advance. You shouldn't try to have sex with your "friends", regardless of sexual preference.It's just more convenient than going out and finding someonerandomly. I highly doubt you'll read and listen to this advice, because it doesn't give you the go ahead to pursue her. I hope to help you to avoid getting your heart broken.I only ask gay people to take caution in piling their feelings on top of people that are supposed to be straight.Even if you manage to have sex, they have to reach the point they can deal with being bi or gay, and you can't take credit for magically turning them from straight to gay.Every gay-friendly person you meet is not a closeted gay. Women openly express affection anyway. They can hug, kiss, cuddle, hold hands, and show public affection. It does not mean they are gay or hiding in the closet.If your friend wants a relationship with you, you wouldn't be asking strangers on this site. You would know, because she would have told you by now.
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