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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes: Hi guysThere's this boy I really like in the year above. A few months ago we were on a school holiday together and apparently he said he liked me, though at the time I had a boyfriend. This relationship finished soon after for other reasons and now I find myself majorly crushing on this boy, I'm constantly glancing at him during school. I think he likes me too, I catch him looking at me and he likes my photos on Instagram...I don't know whether this is me looking for signs or something, but even if it is I think he is the shy type and would never go about doing anything about it.. What would you recommend I do? As a girl I am all for the boy making the first move, and shallow as it sounds I have low confidence and don't want to be embarassed. Help? Thank you
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (5 April 2013):
It sounds like he likes you, so maybe you could start giving him some signs that you like him back? Are you friends on Facebook? If you are, start liking his pictures and try chatting to him on there. Smile at him whenever you see him and if you feel brave say hi. Like his photos too on Instagram.
All of these things should give him an idea that you like him too, which should encourage him to make a move.
Do any of your friends speak to his friends? Perhaps if you have an outgoing friend then she/he could start chatting to his friends, so you can start hanging out as a group.
Keep trying and I'm sure he will make a move eventually, if he is just shy he will feel the same as you and wont want to be embarassed so give him as many hints as you can that you like him and he might work up the courage to talk to you.
Good luck!
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