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30-35,
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writes:HelloThere is a guy on a lecture I go to. This guy is always sitting alone with a girl. They also take the same bus after the lecture. This guy looked sometimes at me in the lectures. Everytime I look at him I see this girl looking very angry at me. (This girl is having another boyfriend.) I couldnt get the opportunity to talk to this guy and in this lecture the most student dont know each other. I added this guy on facebook and he accepted the friend request.I also send him a message in which I told him that I am interested in him. I also told him that I like his way of looking at me. Then I asked him if he wants, we can begin to know each other better.He answered with:"yes we can of course begin to know each other , we are reading the same course until the summer. Then he said that he is unsure of this way of looking on me. He also said Sorry if I caused you negative/positive feelings. Me myself didnt think that looked at you differently."Then I answered him and told him sorry seems as if I was imagining things and told him ok you are now a regular classmate. Because of his message I thought he didnt like me. So I forgot about him and never look at him at all on the lectures. I changed my seat, and started to sit with other gils in front while he always sat as usual on one of the last rows. Sometimes we said hi with a BIG smile to each other. There was no opportunity to talk because he always was with other people or was going to take the bus. But he always seemed happy when he said hi to me, execpt the last time, he said hi with a little smile but he looked into my eyes all the time. I only said hi with a big smile looked quickly at his eyes and then looked quickly away. After a week I wrote to him a message on fb:" How are you? Hope everything is fine.I have some exam excercises that I got from other classmates and asked him if he wants to have them. I also said that I also asked my other friends the same".He read the message directly but didnt answer until after 3 days and said:"Sorry that I am answering so late.I didnt see that I got a message. My fb is strange sometimes. I didnt do all the exercises that I have so I dont need more.But thanks anyhow"After one week, I chnged my seat and sat with a friend on the last row of the room. When I twice turned to him , I saw him talking to another guy and at the same time looking at me ALL the time. The day after, the same when I turn I see him talking to another guy and at the same time looking at me. On the pause that lecture, I went to library and after a while I saw him smiling to me coming towards me with a guy. He asked me if this is the book we need and I said yes. Then I asked them if they find the other books and they said no. I told them where to find them and went to the lecture. On the lecture he was looking at deeply me. We looked into each other eyes and then he turned quickly. On the second pause I saw him looking into my eyes deeply with open mouth,I looked away quickly because of shyness. Sometimes I saw him talking to his friend and looking at me, but not deeply. This time on the whole lecture he was very loud, happy laughed with others and talked a lot about himself and seemed popular. Before when I sat in the begining of the room, he was always quiet and talked quiet. Then after a week I saw him on the lecture, and this time he seemed not happy, and he didnt talk loud and was almost quiet. Someone talked to the teacher and then I saw him looking at me. Another time he was talking to another one and looked at me quickly. On facebook he and me are always online as usual but we dont talk to each other. On the lectures he is always with other students. On the lectures all talks to only theif friends and not the others that they dont know. So it would seem strange to go and sit beside that guy or start to talk to him.Does this guy like me? If yes, why dont he talk to me?If he likes me, what shall I do? I dont want to ask him again if he likes me and get embarrassed. I am unfortunately a shy girl. Please advice me what to do if he likes me. Thanks in advance!
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (5 April 2013):
 He does not like you enough to date you or pursue you.
he's being polite.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (5 April 2013):
 If he was genuinely interested he would pursue you, you already opened the door, but he isn't going for it. So I would assume (from his behavior, and not from how you interpret his looking at you) that he isn't really into you. I'm sorry.
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