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writes:I am a 15 year old male and I was wondering if my sexual orientations are due to hormones? I feel sexually attracted to men but not emotionally or romantically at all.. And I am only attracted to some women (usually middle aged) but have emotional and romantic desire with girls my age... My mum has imbalanced hormones all her life and I wondered if it could have been pasted on to me? Reply to this Question
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reader, chaijam  +, writes (6 September 2012):
It could just be that you haven't met the right guy for you to have an emotional or romantic attachment to. God knows the guys your age I knew were in no way relationship material.
Give yourself time and try experimenting. If you find a guy you're attracted to who's gay or bi maybe ask him out and see if any feelings develop from there.
Best of luck,
J
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (6 September 2012):
At 15... it's not strange to have "odd" sexual attractions. And it's not uncommon to have your hormones messed up at your age, it will settle in time, but it will fluctuate a lot in your teens. Don't fret.
Relax.
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reader, Biffo  +, writes (5 September 2012):
Hi, its very hard to know exactly what you want at 15, I didn't know what I wanted till I was 30. You may be gay. You may be straight. Experiment a little with pals of both sexes and see what you feel most comfortable with, but take your time - no rush...
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (5 September 2012):
 imbalanced hormones are not the cause of sexual orientation.
whatever sexual orientation you have is probably from birth..
WE all have the capacity to love and be sexual with anyone... it's not as black and white as many would like us to believe.
it's possible you are bisexual... or gay or straight or just 15 and confused...
this is the time of your life to explore and figure out what you wanna be when you grow up...
to be honest... anyone I've ever talked to who is gay KNEW long before they were an adult... my brother knew at 13....
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reader, ktmae +, writes (5 September 2012):
 of coUrse you have have a hormone imbalance. You are 15 . Your body and hormones are going crazy right now and will for a little while.I had my curious stage about that age to. It will all start making sense later but for now all that is normal and will get better .Try not to let it confuse yourself so much like the one before said school and anything to keep busy and the mind off of things dont stress . good luck
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