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*ovemeright11
writes:If a man masturbates 5 or 6 times a day when he is single and then gets in a relationship and almost never wants sex could this be a problem? How? Is it possibly that he maybe masturbated too much? I am just wondering. Reply to this Question
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (5 September 2012):
 Well,of course it must be a problem if he almost never wants sex ( regardless if the cause for lack of desire is masturbation or something else ). Unless his partner has a similarly low libido and agrees with almost never having sex. Otherwise, the sexually neglected partner cannot help, I guess, feeling unloved, frustrated and resentful.
Lack of desire IS a problem in a relationship, and needs to be aknowledged, faced , worked upon and possibly solved. But if it stems from masturbating in excess- then the solution is so simple and easy : masturbate less.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (5 September 2012):
 Masturbation can raise havoc upon a relationship.... IF the guy chooses to do it during the time when he should be in bed, satisfying his girlfriend.......
Good luck....
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2012): the problem is it could be a variety of things.
true he might be so used to masturbating that it has become maybe too addictive or he just prefers it because he can do almost whenever and however he likes, its a reliable option.
but then if he hasnt been in a relationship for a while or doesnt feel comfortable enough yet then he might be nervous or just not ready?
if it was me i would give him a bit more time and see if he comes round. i dont think its a problem yet but if it goes on too long i would talk to him.
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