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*etaAri
writes:3 days were gone and he didnt call me , A year we are together never apart from telephone and calls, every time sayed to each other Ilove you and miss you , and qe really do, I think I have done e little mistake to telling him in the phone , I was doubt about something that he were doing lately ,does he cheating in me but I wasnt sure ,he reduced his phone calls,chatin in msn, and than he told if I dont have time to write you dont worry I am working hard or I am with colleges and I cant pick up the phone , sometimes he became angry with me when I phoned him regullary for some hours sometimes he closed my phone telling me good night , and than I began to cray so much why he is acting like this why , when we loved each other , I dont nknow, last week I told him you are in the computer not in the job , you are laying to me and than he became angry didnt write me any more , I love you , not my sweaty , etc, why I asked him he didnt responde, tomorrow I called him 1o times and than he pict up the phone , i told him please I am sorry about that , I beg him to forget me , but he told me you you broke my heart because I loved you with all my heart and I gave you all my body and spirit for you, than I beg him to come just once to me to see him , and than he acepted that , healme to me at night 80 km distance to see me , we stayed together ,talked but he said that how many time do I have to forget you , I told him every women make sometime mistake because dont know very well his boyfriend , we went to hotel stayed he loved me as before , when I told him do you forgime me now he just said shhhhhh, dont speak, when we apart from each other in the car he kissed me , my hand and lips, than he went home , he wrote me sms that he is at home now and wrote me I kiss you, than in next day when I wrote him to call me he didnt answered me immidetly, i became nervous , called him again and again than he told me please are yougoing to repair your behaiver or not, ok I apologize to him that I will never call him eny more like this ,untill than he didnt call me or text msg me , I am crying every hour because I have don everything for him ,when he didnt work before I have give him money, be respectful, charching phone with credits every time, o my God I am going to be sick very soon , I am sufferin because I love him so much , I know he love me but what happend I dont know, mY heart is broken really I am waiting him to call me ,or what to do because he dont want tospeak on the phone ..there went 5 days i dont call him anymore,also he didnt cal lme anymore,I miss him so much because I love him,what to do, does he is going to callme , I am just waiting him I am not going to call him as I did before , it so hear for me , does he miss me,does he remeber our days together that we were happy ,please should I wait him more to call me ,or what to do ,,, please write me something we never apart just one day from each other .Ineed your answere please
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reader, JetaAri +, writes (6 September 2012):
JetaAri is verified as being by the original poster of the question dear friend he didnt asked me for sex because always asked me if I want than ,and never insisted he respected my word were to go,were to stay but wasnt that,he told me that I ofended him why I told him dont turn your phone because lately he told me to not worry if he dont pick the phone right now because maybe he is busy with work,or friends and dont think that I have sombody else, and when I said him why you are not writing me so often that you did before, or why you are anymore asking me to see each other in msn,he told me that he cant of some circumstances in place he live because he has such big members of family and they watch him etc etc and I became angry fith him I told him I dont belive you,and than he turn his phone ,than I said if you dont pick up the I willnever speak to you any more,and for that word he dont want to talk to me or phoned me , I beg him to forgive me but he wont i cried a lot, than i DECIDED to not call any more him, and from that time had gone 7 days we didnt spoke to each other ,last night I sow he was in fb, I am not etering anymore in fb or other socialnetwork becausedont want to contak with him,to see if he miss me or not , I truly lov ed him, also he loved me I know that ,we never did apart from one day from each other , please what to do I am so broken heart
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reader, franny1297  +, writes (5 September 2012):
 Honey listen up he probably isn't interested anymore. Have you told him you won't have sex? if so this could be it. He could be cheating on you . . . or he might just be busy with life. Whatever it is, confront him. Turn up at his door and ask him why he is saying this and doing this. Tell him you love him with all your heart mind and soul. While you do that get him a little gift. Maybe so purfume or a watch or jersey. Tell him your sorry for anything you did that hurt or offended him in any kind of way. If you confident enough have sex with him and use lots and lots of protection. Hope all goes well. yours sincerely, your agony aunt :P
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2012): I see both of ur mistakes. U come across as very needy and clingy. It it's not an emergency there is no need for u 2 constantly call simply b/c u wanted 2 talk, see, or hear, etc. In the future, don't call a man so much. Its turn off a BIG one. Ur boyfriend is being a bit of an a** by not considering ur needs and feelings by not doing what is important to u. If he is working is one thing it wouldn't hurt to pick up the phone and say "hi". So I can somewhat understand where ur coming from.In the meantime, put on a nice outfit, go for a walk. Hang out w/friends, do some of ur favorite things or hobbies. Don't isolate yourself b/c don't look like u will b hearing from him again. Sorry that this happened. Get back on that horse and don't look back! Best of luck!
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