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I'm not sure how to be dominant

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Question - (5 September 2012) 4 Answers - (Newest, 9 September 2012)
A male United Kingdom age , *ark7134 writes:

Hi, just after a bit of advice please... I've been seeing someone for a few months and she likes to be dominated.. we have good and exciting sex, tying up, shackled toys, spanking etc.. my problem is I enjoy doing it with her but not sure what to say to dominate her more and I know she would love it if I did lol.. I do tell her where to kiss sometimes... but should I be more forceful in the way I say things but not sure what to say, any advice appreciated

Many thanks

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A male reader, Mark7134 United Kingdom +, writes (9 September 2012):

Mark7134 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thanks for the great advice

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2012):

You may want to me more aggressive with her though I don't know How far she would want you to go . Maybe she wants telling off in a kinky way and it to look convincing to her be a bit rough with her and talk to her in a firm

Voice grabbing her roughly and pleasuring her at the same time may work aswell.

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A male reader, Yos Netherlands +, writes (5 September 2012):

Yos agony auntI once read this article on the subject. It's the clearest answer to your question I can think of:

http://www.denversub.com/ds.html

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A female reader, Peonysheart United States +, writes (5 September 2012):

Peonysheart agony auntI myself have enjoyed this lifestyle for many years.

Do you know how far she wants to take it? I mean have you set rules or a signal for times when it might be to much. This is important.

Dirty talking is always a great deal of fun.

Telling her what a naughty girl she is.

Some woman like being talked down to during role play.

I would like to add alot of ideas to help your here, Im just reluctant as Im not sure to what level you or her feel comfortable with.

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