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*hykid
writes:I really wanted to know the answer and the story is this:When I transferred to a new school ,I had a crush in my lower year schoolmate who is also a transferree from an all girls school. I was very shy back then so we only talked through text messages. After the end of that school year, she said that she had an infatuation and that's the end of it.Now im in college ,Whenever we met in person we didn't talk to each other , we always see each other because we are both members of an organization in the church. we always send text messages though there isn't a long conversation, but one time she sent an indirect message for me to stop.Now, she is sick and I am the only one besides her relatives who always visited her in the hospital and brought fruits, we also talked a little bit but we're not that close to each other yet. My question is: can I bring back the feelings we shared when we are in high school? Is my effort in visiting her to the hospital has an effect on her? Should I continue what I am doing?
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (5 September 2012):
 yes keep on keeping on
visit her
tell her how you feel
stand by her..
visiting a friend is always a good thing when they are ill
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (5 September 2012):
 short answer is YES! go for it...First loves are NEVER out of your heart so to skip it now will leave you with decades of regrets and sorrow
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