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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:This guy i really like (a lot) thinks I'm hot and wants to hook up... I dont want to- at all! And we had one class together and i tAlked to him a lot but now i dont know what to say or do because he doesn't text that much and i dont go to school with him anymore! Please help me im sad
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2012): You don't speak to or see him anymore, you like him, he wanted to meet you but you didn't.
What is there to be dad about?
You obviously don't like this guy as much as you say or think if you didn't want to meet up with him away from school when you had the chance.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (21 November 2012):
 Sometimes people don't turn out to be who we think they are or who we want them to be.
You thought you liked the guy (a lot) but turns out he is just another horny dude, who wants to use the fact that you like him.
Forget about him.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (21 November 2012):
 you like a guy that's NORMAL!
he wants to hook up (what does that mean to a 13/15 year old anyway?) in my day and age HOOK up meant to get together... NOT have sex... or be physical at all...
YOU don't want to---GOOD! that means you have self respect and a good head on your shoulders
you texted a lot and went to class together but now you don't go to the same school so you don't see him....
and you are SAD... because
while YOU want him to LIKE you, you don't want him to hurt you or be physical with you... and your feelings are hurt.
I'm sorry. IT sucks to be your age and have a crush that is not returned... and all you can do is think about him and it makes you sadder...
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2012): "I dont want to- at all!"
So don't; what's the problem?
He wants to use you for a kiss or two and that's it, you don't want to be used that way, so don't used that way. Forget about him OP, you'll get over it. The fact you don't see him around anymore and don't text will make the whole thing easier.
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