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30-35,
*ukesh.55
writes:okay.i am in a relation from 6 years with a girl in my neighbourhood.we were happy and our relationship was cute.she had to go to china for her m.b.b.s.one day we had a fight and we dint talk for two months.in this gap she talked to another guy who had a crush on her and spent time chatting and talkin for hours.within 20 days after she started talkin he asked her to meet and she agreed.when she met him he asked her to go out with him because someone can see her as she was near her hostel.she agreed for that and they went for a ride and after returning he placed his hand on her back.she removed his hand and said him that she doest like this kind of things and went back to her room.this was the story which she said.now where i doubt her is,how can she start talking another guy when i am not there?and that too with a person who had a crush on her?after knowing thst he have crush on her,how can she talk with him?and if it happened..did this end with a hand on her back or something more also happened?because she agreed to meet him when he asked to meet and if she had no interest in meeting him,she will not agree to meet.she told me that he asked her out many times but she dint agree because she felt that it was too early to go out with him.after 20 days she fely that guy was a decent one and it was safe to go out with him.now she told me this story but i am not able to understand how can she do such a thing?i dint do such things when we were not talking.and she said me this story and apologised.she said that it will not repeat again.how can i trust her again.i love her so madly that i cant imagine a life without her.did she tell me everything?or something worse happened and is scared to tell me?because she knows that i will feel bad when she tells me such things.please help me.i am dying everyday.i cant sleep.and i cant leave her.and i cant forget this matter so easily.the main doubt is..did it end just with hand on her back or something else happened which she is scared to tell me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2012): she is taking you for granted as she has realised the fact that you can't live widout her. Better grow up the fear of loosing her. The day you overcome the fear of loosing her you will overcome the pain.
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reader, Lucky786  +, writes (29 March 2012):
 You don't trust her. That is the theme throughout your post. She has told you nothing really has happened other than the hand on her back which she asked him to remove. Is this the first time this has happened? Has she done this before?
You have a choice. You can either believe what she tells you and move forward with your relationship or you can torture yourself with what might or might not have happened which will drive a wedge between you both.
If she has been worthy of your trust in the past and has never given you reason to doubt her, then I think you should believe her.
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