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writes:My ex just sent me a message saying "good luck with your life".We broke up two months ago, why is he contacting me?.When we broke up another time before that, he got intouch after a couple of months then too and he sent a message saying he hoped my life was better and that i was happy then,and soon after that,he told me that he wanted me back.Do you think he wants me back this time too?.Should i contact him or ignore him?.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (29 March 2012):
 He wanted to see if you would take the bait. He wants to know that he is/was "unforgettable". It's a ego soother.
Ignore him and keep ignoring him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2012): Definately ignore it, it's happened in the past so learn from that and focus on your future. He's probably trying to make you think about him, which seems to have worked, but just remember the reasons you broke up and that'll give you strength to ignore him! Good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2012): Yeah its probably his way of trying to get your attention. Instead of saying "Hey, what's up. How's it going?" no that's too hard for him. Instead, out of nowhere, he sends some semi bitter mixed message saying "good luck with your life."
Yeah I mean maybe he does want to get back with you. But he sounds kind of immature, if you ask me...
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reader, oldbag +, writes (29 March 2012):
 he was probly bored probably single and thought you would respond and he could take it from there. Just ignore it it didnt work out before and you are trying to get over him .If you want him back then up to you .but
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (29 March 2012):
 Ignore him. And move on. You broke up TWICE, that should tell you something. You don't want to get stuck into a neverending cycle of break-up/ make-up,I hope.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2012): He might be contacting you again because he is forming a habit with you. You say you have broken up twice before and got back together following a similar message. So he is probably thinking he will give it another go.
If I were you I would do myself a favour...be strong and ignore it this time. You gave that relationship two tries already and it did not work. If you let him think he can dash off a quick text after every break up and you run back again, he is going to learn a very damaging (for you) lesson from that. And before you know it you will be in one of those disfunctional on/off again relationships for goodness knows how long. Some of them can last for years! Who needs that?
It might be tempting to get back in touch but honestly, you will be doing yourself a massive favour if you can leave it this time and move on.
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reader, bronzed adonis +, writes (29 March 2012):
 Ignore it, otherwise your life with him will become a cycle.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2012): He's telling you to find yourself another guy and wishing you good luck. I would cut off all contacts, ignore him and move on
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reader, Cole Turner  +, writes (29 March 2012):
 The ex is still thinking about you, you are still on his mind ... are you over him? if so its time to move on ... ignore the message and go forward with your life!
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reader, YouWish +, writes (29 March 2012):
 If your life is better off without him, then ignore his tweet. If you keep breaking up and getting back together, then maybe it's time to move on.
I say ignore.
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