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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:What does it take to forget someone who's impacted ur life. You hear a song and remember them. They live near ur work and u see them driving bye. But some part of u try's not to forget and even though u love two guys u know to stick with the one u have even though the other ones an ex. A memory of someone who use to be very special to u. Still after two years with my current boyfriend who I will never part with I still look back and say I wish I could spend one last day with my ex. I tried everything to forget him but have failed miserably. I just dont know why he feels right in my life as a friend but that's what I want right now.I think about this all the time. My boyfriends all I ever wanted and I'm happy but some part of me has a soft spot for my ex. How to stop this torture? I don't want to hurt my boyfriend.
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reader, Vic Williams  +, writes (7 January 2012):
 1. Spend time doing what you can do best.e.g: cooking, reading, singing, dancing etc.2. Delete all photos of him on your mobile or computer. 3. Don't keep remembering the wonderful time you guys spent because it'll do you NO GOOD! Don't think about him because he doesn't love you any more!4. Dont make the worse mistake by calling him or texting him. Just move on. He has forgotten about you so just do the same and enjoy yourself. Good luck!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (7 January 2012):
 If you do not want to hurt your boyfriend, well then simple don't. It is ok to remember the old times and smile about the past and miss certain bits about it. But if you still love your ex after being in your current relationship for two years well then there really must be something lacking in your relationship for you to still have strong feelings for your ex. Love is a very strong word. It is ok to be fond of your ex but love is completely different. You just need to try and keep him out of your life and move forward. Off course you are going to remember things but that is just part of life.
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