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writes:Hi there, my problem is the opposite to many that you have probably seen- not sure if this is appropriate for this site, but anyway Im sure I'll be told if it isn't.I am a male in my 40's and would like to know whether anyone can recommend any techniques or products for orgasming quicker. Sometimes when having sex (or masturbating for that matter) it takes a long time to come or I don't at all. I'm sure Im not the only one to have this 'problem' (and Im sure there will be many who wish they did). Not having an orgasm or taking forever to come isn't ideal, and is plain annoying for me, as well as the girl.Any ideas? Many thanks for any assistance you can provide :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionMany thanks for your answers- very helpful! :)
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (7 January 2012):
 I would discuss this with your doctor. You should be evaluated to see if there is an underlying medical condition that is contributing to this. Are you healthy with normal hormonal balance and vasculature and muscle tone? Are you taking any medications that may interfere with your sexual response? Do you have blood pressure issues? Any neurological conditions? Prostate problems? Diabetes? Cancer?
You see my point? Rule out the medical problems first and then, you can work on the mental... are you over thinking? Do you need more mental stimulation? How's your fantasy and visualization capabilities?
http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/ency/article/001954.htm
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2012): Could it be that you are too much 'in your head' whilst getting down to it? It can happen with men who suffer from impotence as well, if you're worried about it happening again you're not focusing on the main thing you should be focusing on... pleasure! I would suggest practising with masturbation first, so that you can figure out the switches that will help you. Try only focusing on something that turns you on. Fantasies. Its difficult to suggest things as different things work for different people, and this is about finding out what works for you. Try listening to music at the same time, so all that you think about is the music and the fantasy. What might also help, is thinking about how good it feels and that it feels so good you will reach orgasm very quickly this time. I hope this helps. Jess
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