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writes: i have been talking with a guy for a few week and he was calling and/or texting daily and then we had a little conversation about him not saying sexual things to me i told him it was a little innapropriate at this point and then he said he was hurt that i questioned his intention with me. I thought we should maybe take a step back if i questioned his intentions.he ended up saying sorry and we were fine. but since then he doesnt make an effort to message as much......if i text him he responds instantly and seems happy to talk to me sending xox and saying i cant wait to meet. the problem is he said he's not ready to meet me until he gets eye surgery next week he has a chalazion....he wants to see me when he looks his best and said he'll want to see me all the time after teh surgery.....the problem is, that was all through texting monday and i havent texted him since and hes made no effort to call or text......what should i think?
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reader, Luan  +, writes (7 January 2012):
You have been talking and texting with this guy.. so U haven't met him till the date. So, what you consider this relation as, FRIENDSHIP or something else?? Reading your details, It looks like that guy likes you, n moreover, want to live life with you; as he keeps telling you that he wants to see you all the times after surgery. Just first, be sure; what type of relation you want from this guy?
N the guy wanting to meet you after surgery... Are you that sure that the guy is getting surgery? I feel you dont even know that guy so well.. If he really is telling the truth, ya, you could wait for a while; but dont give WAITING too much emphasis. And just live with your Life accordingly.. Dont give much thought about that boy.. :)
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reader, Claraw1  +, writes (6 January 2012):
 Don't worry about him not messaging much. Having any type of operation is scary and he is just feeling the pressure people feel when facing an operation, it's stressful and he just needs a little time to concentrate on that. Wait until after the operation is over and he has healed from the procedure and then take it from there.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (6 January 2012):
 Wait til he has his surgery then see how things go. This is his time pre-op is a scary time. post-op can be a tortoure zone depending on how things go. If it was you having surgery(any kind of surgery) you'd want a period of time to just be "alone" too.
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