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anonymous
writes:hey here is my question:what do guys feel of shy girls?cause i am really shy and i dont know how to act around guys :/i could really use you help and advise
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (6 January 2012):
 (She's shy). This is what I would think.
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reader, Mark_25_  +, writes (6 January 2012):
 I'm going to echo what other people have said, it's true! I would always prefer shy over outgoing. Shy girls are usually the most caring and loving and just genuinely nice people. Quiet shy girls usually tend to atract the really nice and genuine guys as well - it's logical, all the guys that just want a physical relationship, or just want a trophy girlfriend, aren't going to want to bother with someone they're going to have to put time and effort in to. People tend to attract the same sort of people. For instance, me and my girlfriend are both very shy, but we just clicked, we are the same on every level, I couldn't create a more perfect match for me. You, like I used to, might get frustrated that you're so shy and that people don't show an interest, unfortunately that tends to be the way at your age. But as you get older, you start to notice other people that are quiet, and you they start noticing you too. When you're younger, everyone that isn't an outgoing and loud person doesn't tend to get noticed. What I'm basically saying is, you might have to wait longer, but it is more than worth it. The knowledge that my girlfriend has let me in to her life a lot further than she has done with anybody else makes me feel like the luckiest guy on the planet! When it's two people that are shy, you can create so much more of a bond and connection, because the only person that truly knows you, is your partner, which to me, is incredible! There's nothing wrong with being shy :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2012): I was very shy at your age too, still am quite shy! But I found that this means the boys who eventually find you are much nicer, and take the trouble to get to know you and take things slowly because they care about you.
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reader, eek +, writes (6 January 2012):
 i love shy ladies.
Shy people tend to be honest, thoughtful and loving (in my experience) the sort of person i would love to find.
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reader, SonOfMan  +, writes (6 January 2012):
 Just be your shy self! Some guys find that attractive :) seriously though just be "normal" and don't treat them any different to how you want to be treated. If you know there are guys in your life who have similar interests that might make conversations easier.
You can even set yourself a task by saying "today, I'm gonna talk to......" and make a conciois effort to start a conversation with somebody, even if it's with a guy in a store. It's all good practice.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (6 January 2012):
 Lots of people can be really shy when it comes to the opposite sex. The key is not to look at talking to guys as to scary. You just need to talk to them like you would talk to any one else. Be friendly with them and ask questions. Once you get to know someone you automatically become more comfortable around them so just take things slow and get to know the person before you move any thing to another level.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2012): It doesn't matter if you're shy as long as you come across as friendly and interested in meeting new people. Some guys will prefer shy girls to loud ones, and these are the type of guys who would be right for you anyway so don't worry too much. Also, you will become a lot more confident with time, especially the more you are in social situations. And just be yourself around guys, and I'm sure they will like you :)
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