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writes:Hi guys,I think the best way to describe it is.. I'm stuck! Its been this way most of my life, and the situation doesn't really change. I guess you could say I have very little to do with guys. It's not me so much that doesnt have much to do with guys, its just my group of friends, and friends or family everywhere. They just tend to stick with girls and not mingle with the other sex. I am not a lesbian, and I like guys, but I want more to do with them. How can I socialise and interact more with guys? And are there any certain things that guys like girls to have? (Like little personiality quirks, the way we say or approach things, etc).Any help would be much appreciated :)
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reader, Relationship.Chef  +, writes (29 January 2012):
 The best way to socialize is to find common interest.
It's very difficult to attract a rocket scientist if you don't have the slightest interest in astronomy.
However, there are, of course, certain things that men (boys) will lean towards. Things mechanical, adrenaline-packed (racing/fighting/other "macho" stuff).
However, to echo the previous advice, don't change!
Alter, instead.
For example, I don't like gyms. I truly believe that they're packed with muscle-heads and inattentive treadmill runners. Yet, I find the definition of female muscle utterly sexy. And, while I exercise religiously at home, I see nothing wrong with joining the gym with sole purpose of "gaming".
So, find something you enjoy.
Dancing, poetry, art, whatever. But, don't spread yourself thin. Pick one.
Then, go places where such activities are practiced.
If, for example, art is your thing, find a gallery opening, and, head on over!
Find where people are, doing the same thing that you love to do, and, there you will find plenty of boys.
And, if for some amazing reason, you develop interest in anything automotive, I guarantee a horde of guys wanting to spend time with you!
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reader, AbigailBradbury  +, writes (29 January 2012):
 don't ask the question, "what personality traits do guys like girls to have". Don't change yourself for a guy! Just be yourself.
If a guy likes you because you're doing something different to what you normally do, then he isn't worth it. And if say, you ever did settle down with someone who got with you because they thought you were something else, eventually they'd find out who you really are, and then they might leave. Don't lie to yourself. Men aren't worth changing yourself to suit their mood.
:D xx
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reader, Dear Mandy +, writes (29 January 2012):
 Hi
just be yourself, dont try to be anyone else just to make a guy want to be your friend, its you they want to know the real you. next time your out and you see a guy you know of, just say hi , strike up a conversation, just dont be too girlie in the conversation i.e his not going to want to know about you getting your nails done, or what shampoo you use lol.....just be yourself and have fun.
hope this helps
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