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writes: I love my boyfriend very much hes very sweet I mean he will do anything for me and I am probably being stupid but when we talk I will say to him when he goes home I miss him and he always talks about cwtching which I do enjoy but he never really talks about enjoying other things with me like sex I have asked him why and he said of course he does but thats not why hes with me..... I am soooo not used to this, my ex would talk about it a lotttt! he would be like I want you now! thats mainly wat my ex wud talk about.After reading what I put i sound like I am insane for moaning but I like to feel wanted hes like too caring I mean if he thinks im tired he wont come near me saying awwwh ur tired lets cwtch... im like okkkkk and tbh i am quiet and dont want to say nooo lets do it now kinda thing its like I have a mental block lol but i doo say im not tired :S but hes afraid that im too tiredanyways people am I being insane? moaning that my boyfriend is being too caring? I will say if he does something for me ill make it up to u later wink wink and he will sayy awwwh u dont have to im like for god sake!!!!! lol I am used to a guy wanting sex more than me! not like he doesnt want to coz he does a lot! but its not like a big deal to him he keeps saying being with me is enough and that sex is just a bonus and if we dont do it hes still happy to be with me which is very sweet but i want to feel wanted....so am i being stupid?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyeh you are right there think im just used to my ex, he was like that, I am insane lol at least im with the guy im suppose to be with now, i want to feel wanted but not used
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhe usually initiates it first but i find it strange that its not really important to him, like if we dont have sex he would never complain but wen we are in bed he does kiss my neck a lot which he knows i cant resist then! but im not used to being with a guy that isnt bothered bout it, like if i said to him we are never having sex again i dont think he would be like yes we are he wud just agree with me! lol i want him to be lk no i want u! i think he wud be gutted but he wud go along with it!weird im welsh dunno why an american flag is up :s as to user Rage have u talked to him about this? i know i dont initiate it all the time but i do say to him "awww ill make it up to u later" orrr "save it for later" its deffinately important to feel wanted, ive had to speak to my boyfriend a couple of times coz he didnt make me feel sexy and he does try by saying ur beautiful and i turn him on but Rage u deffinately need to talk its not nice feeling unwanted its apart of being inlove sex and feeling wanted physicallysorry for the long comment
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reader, TrancedRhythmEar  +, writes (30 January 2012):
 Im guessing hes embarassed about a lower sex drive. Talk him about it.
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reader, PerhapsNot  +, writes (30 January 2012):
 Just tell him what you want! What you're describing are minor issues. Sit him down and tell him that you feel more wanted as a woman if he did X, Y and X. You have a brain and a mouth, so use it to communicate. If you don't tell him what you need, you'll never get it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2012): If you want to be seen as a mastubatory object then yes, you are with the wrong man that happens to be most any other appreciative females Right Kinda Man.
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