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writes:I don't know what to do. My ex and I from two years ago have become closer recently we have been talking more face to face and we have also started bbming each other a bit. A few months after we broke up i had got completely over him and we thought of each other as friends (quite distant), then lately we have begun to talk more! I have realised that I have become to like him, however it is not like a renew of my feelings from the previous relationship its more like a new feeling for someone else because he has changed since the end of the relationship.Also, its not having feelings from the old relationship because I completely got over it, and I hated how the relationship was after! So what do I do?Also, when I'm talking to him it takes a while for him to get comfortable in the conversation for us to have a banter and him to seem interested, most times I start the conversations but he does start them now and again! Is he interested? Also, what conversation starters can I use for him to become suddenly interested so he asks me the questions instead?Also, my friend was speaking to him a couple of weeks back she was upset at the time ad she was saying how much she didn't want a relationship and in reply he said 'same' would he have said that to console her? If he wast would he have changed his mind by now? I have begun like him should I stopo myself ?Please help! Thank you!
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reader, Pooki__11  +, writes (30 January 2012):
Dont ever ASSUME anything with men. EVER. If a guy likes a girl, he will make a move. No matter how shy he is, he will make a move if he truly wants her. Also it is very rare for people to change much. I just thought that you should really think hard about this. If I were you, I would def try to stop liking him. History often if not always repeats itself. Save yourself the heartache.
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reader, Sir-T +, writes (30 January 2012):
I am in the same situation except i am the guy here and i have recently started talking to my ex.Girls generally get more attached than guys... Your ex probably knows this and if he isn't getting any girls trying to play this card on you.i apologize if this is not the case but generally there is this belief among guys that an ex is always there either for sex or for support... so either way be warnedDo not let your guard down too easily... that is the only way to ensure you don't get hurt or used.Judge it this way... if you are the one mainly starting contact then you are clearly more sprung than he is and he couldn't care less.Be safe hunni... Few men exist but there are a lot of boys everywhere.
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reader, AbigailBradbury +, writes (29 January 2012):
 Ok, i know that the feelings have come back, but this is probably because there is history there and you have things in common that make it easy to talk to him.I don't think you should get back with him. Remember why he was an ex in the first place; they are EXES for a reason love.Once he reels you in again he'll go back to his old self.it's up to you what you do at the end of the day and if you feel he really has changed, then maybe you could give him a chance. If you do take it slow and make sure you KNOW he's changed.Don't let him use you as a doormat.Have more respect for yourself. Be careful. :)
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