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writes:I'm a senior in high school and really want a girlfriend. I'm very nice, sweet, tough, have confidence and sometimes I feel like a good guy for the ladies. I never had one and I see a lot of my friends dating. I going to be separated from my high school friends. I'm going to a different college then all my friends. I feel like I should have more friends that are girls more than friends that are guys. I'm worried that I'm going to be lonely after graduating from college. I really don't want to be single after I'm officially done with school. Could I meet the right person for me in college? I know that nobody is not physic and can't tell for sure. I just want to know is there a good chance?
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reader, GetUp  +, writes (30 January 2012):
 It's really good that you can see these great characteristics of yourself. I think that's a vital step in achieving a girlfriend. I just hope that you're not trying to rush things just because you see your friends with girls, and you feel like you need to keep up.However, to answer your question, there is a really really high chance that you could meet a great girl in college. In high school, dating is centered a lot around appearances and other superficial things. But when you get to college, you're all of a sudden surrounded by people who are intelligent and more secure about themselves, most likely because of the experiences that they had in high school (not saying that everyone in college is like this, just more so than high school).You don't need to have more guy friends, or more girl friends. Just have friends, if that makes sense. Worrying about being alone is completely common, so chances are that there is also a girl out there that is tired of being single.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2012): Yes it is very possible, in fact, college is a time for a fresh start after high school, a lot of people grow confidence, and become much better at socialising and talking to other people. There will be lots of ladies at your college without boyfriends, and lots of opportunities for socalising in the different parties, events, clubs, societies etc that will be avalible for you to join. If you are going to be studying in a university town, where there is a particularly large amount of students, I would say your chances increase even more because all the clubs, cafes and other places will be all full of other young people like yourself. So just relax, have fun and stay involved, don't be afraid to ask out someone you think you might like, and I'm sure you wont have much trouble (just save sometime for your studies). Good luck with everything!
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