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writes:Dear Cupid,Well, heres another update, a mind boggling one at that rate.I visited B around his again, we had fun and a few laughs and ended up on his sofa watching a film, we were cuddling my head resting on his chest. I felt him gently push me to being on top of him. He was running his hands along my back, eventually he reached my ass and he squeazed it against him (he was hard at this point) and it lead to us dry humping. After a while we stopped. He said "i didnt expect us to be doing that today" and i muttered something about no longer being cold. We eventually went upstairs to watch some of his dvds and once again we were dry humping, in all different kinds of positions. He turned off the tv leaving us in darkness and we kissed. It was.. Really nice. I stopped to get a drink and then he went on to his computer and we both just acted like nothing happened. This was saturday.. He hasn't spoken to me since, and i wont make the first move because it always goes wrong when i do. So i'm asking for your opinion.. What do you think happned between us? a moment of weakness or do we want more? is he playing me? does he like me.i know i should probably ask him but i need your help right now.. please?
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reader, SonOfMan  +, writes (31 January 2012):
 Instead of thinking "should I talk to him first?" what you should be asking is "should I take charge of this situation?"
This way, the answer should easily become yes. It's a great way of taking charge of things that happen to us which sometimes we leave to chance and think it will just take care of itself.
So I think if he hasn't approached you about it then you should take charge and bring it up first.
Things never happen unless we make the first step.
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reader, WeShouldntHide2006 +, writes (30 January 2012):
WeShouldntHide2006 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks for the replies, should i approach him or should i wait for him to talk to me first?
Whenever we normally talk its him that talks first i'm not sure why, it just is.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2012): There is only you who can answer this question if you like him or not I would ask him its the only way you can find out
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reader, SonOfMan +, writes (30 January 2012):
You both have to ask yourselves the same questions really, because it's not one sided.
It may be awkward because you are friends and "boundaries" may have been momentarily crossed however the quicker you talk about it and clear the air the better it will be for the both of you.
Obviously it sounds like a physical reaction which you both enjoyed otherwise you wouldn't have been so close physically for this to happen.
As I'm sure you are aware relationships are based on so much more than a dry hump then it's important to figure out what you want and if you are ready to commit to being more than friends.
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reader, Dorothy Dix  +, writes (30 January 2012):
Hi there. You are friends, obviously.
You both need to be clear on where you stand with each other, since this sexual encounter.
There's nothing for it but it ask him straight out, does he want more than friendship.
He's the only person who can tell you that.
It also depends on what you want from all this.
It could have been experimentation by him as well, when the mood took him.
In any case, just be honest with him.
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