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writes:My ex and I share a lot of history, we were best friends for a year and liked each other for a lot, a year after we hugged for the first time and hung out as well with friends.Few months later we had our first kiss and first sex and it was very passionate, any-ways we wanted to go out but he wasn't ready though because he wanted to get a job and sort his life out. Week later we had sex again for the last time and it was romantic, i didn't want to wait for him, it hurt too much.So i got a bf and he got jealous and went out with another chick to make me jealous, every time he broke up with a chick he would always come to me asking me if i was still with someone and saying he still liked me. Time went on and he went out with one of my high school friends for 11 months, she wouldn't let me and him talk but we would always stare at each other like we did ever since we first met in 2007. He broke up with her at the end of 2009 and we chatted, laughed and started flirting, he wanted to hangout with me that weekend and asked me to come over to watch a movie and it turned into far more then that, we had romantic sex 4 times during that night and cuddled, kissed and held hands, things got complicated (long story) and we didn't talk for a few months.Since then i have noticed he has been wearing the same necklace he wore that night with me, everyday at his work and everywhere else, we went on and off being friends and always had fights.He dated a chick for 2 months, came back to me but nothing happened then dated another one who his still with now and he keeps staring at me constantly even when his with his gf.He will talk about me to my closest friends, but say bad things about me to his brother, like he wants to hide something. He follows me but doesn't make it look so obivious.Every time he walks past me he will walk past me so close that he sometimes brushes my clothes with his, and everything at where he works (supermarket).Sometimes he will check me out and give me smirks like the other day we saw each other, before he went back to work.His brother was more upfront around me telling me that he's still got 3 weeks off out of no where, then my ex came to my place one day to pick up a game for his brother, which i don't understand why, he didn't just get his mum or someone else to, and we haven't talked in months because of his controlling gf who hates me for no reason?, why is he doing all of this????No Negative comments PLEASE !
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reader, Anonymous 123  +, writes (29 January 2012):
 He is still not over you and still likes you...a LOT! perhaps that is the reason why he hasnt been able to stick with one particular girl. the very reason why he started dating in the first place was because he wanted to make you feel jealous, so its obvious the poor guy still isnt over you.
The G/f hates you because she knows how much he likes you, I'm sure he must have discussed you with her and the rest is out there for her to see.
The thing is, do YOU still like this guy?
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reader, Abella  +, writes (29 January 2012):
 This poor man has a serious ongoing crush on you and he is not Bf material for anyone else at the moment as he still misses you very much.
I can really understand why his Gf does not like you. Though she is focusing on the wrong person. It is not your fault and you are not the one causing this. You cannot help that your ex still has a major crush on you.
The real issue is that your ex is not over you yet. He cannot let go of you. His Gf realises that, and so did his previous Gf. Neither girl could compete with you.
This guy is still recalling all the things he liked about you. He probably talks about you to his current Gf and that probably makes her madder too.
what this poor love-sick man needs to do is decide who he really wants to be with. His current Gf - in which case he has to give up trying to 'just happened to run into you...'
OR
say good bye to his current Gf and then start trying to woo you all over again. If you will have him back? But that is up to you.
Best Wishes
Abella
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