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writes:HelloI am eighteen years old and i am eight months pregnant with twins . Idk what to do but first I'll give you the background:My bf is 19 years old and his ex gf lets called her Chantel cheated on him numerous time , she got people to kidnapped him etc and when he met me he had trust issue but i prove him i didnt cheat . When my bf got in a car accident and got shot Chantel was there 100% while i was with my grandpa at the hospital when he passed. But my bf kept texting me saying baby get Chantel off of me please etc (that was two days after the accident) But couple days later my sister took me to the hospital because I wasnt feeling to good etc and that i found out I was pregnant . I told my bf and he was happy . Fast fwd the story im 3 months pregnant and Chantel came by to check on my bf but I had to go to my grandma house and check on her. When I came back home Chantel car was still there. I opened the door Chantel was smiling and staring at my bf then she looked at me and gave me a dirty look and left . Fast forward NOW im 8 months and i was cleanin the hallway and that when i heard the doorbell and bf opened and it was Chantel and they started kissing and they was talking after that and she told my bf that she 5 months pregnant with twins also and started denying the babies saying its not his and she compare my 5 month ultrasounds with hers and i heard him say omg they all got my nose and lips and sat down saying how am i gonna tell Mercedez (thats me) and I came downstairs saying you dont have to tell me because i overheard yall talkin. Now he keeps textin n callin me sayin baby let me explain And promise me that this wont happen again etc . We been together for 2 years and im having his FIRST kids too! PS she having boys but my question is What should I do ? Break up or make up ? I cant sleep or eat i just been crying nonstop
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (30 January 2012):
 Break up. And dont ever go back.
You saw them kissing, regardless of whether the babies are his or not he is clearly cheating on you with her so dont allow yourself to be treated like this.
He is an awful person and you can do a lot better. Focus on giving your babies the best life you possibly can and forget about your boyfriend, he will only hurt you again and there will be so much drama from the ex situation it will only get worse.
Yes it hurts now, but it will hurt a lot more if you keep him in your life, because he will know he can cheat and get away with it so he will keep on doing it.
He will need access to see the babies but apart from that get rid of him once and for all. Never allow yourself to stay with a cheater, you deserve more than that.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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