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male
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30-35,
*letcher
writes:So me and my ex broke up about 6 months ago and we are both dating new people. I know for a fact that she still has dreams about me and she isn't happy with her current situation I don't think. I am now dating another girl too. I love her to death she just isn't my ex and thats really all it is. I can't move on. I feel like this feeling to get my ex back is getting stronger. Today my ex chatted me for the first time in a while about her getting spammed from my old email account. I want to start a nice conversation with her and maybe find out if she like me. What do I say or do. Any ideas?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (15 January 2012):
 First off you are obviously not happy with your girlfriend at the moment if you are having these feelings for your ex. It is obvious you are not over her, so I think you should tell your girlfriend that it is over, so she does not get any more hurt than she will be. The more you drag out the relationship the more she will get hurt, so it is time to be honest with her and tell her that the relationship is just not working.
Think back to why you and your ex broke up, what where the reasons? There was obviously problems for you both to break up, do you think that these problems could be fixed and you could both be happy again? Just because that is what you want does not mean that it is possible? All you can do then after this really is to talk to her and tell her how you feel, tell her you are not over her and you want to give things another go, take things slow and see how it goes. If she says no then you need to accept that and move forward with your life, be on your own for a while so you can get over her and then you can look for someone else to date. Good luck.
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female
reader, Trinklett  +, writes (13 January 2012):
 Just tell her how you feel. And you have to be ready for the answer to go either way. Remember she's the only person that can tell you what she's feeling.
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