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How do I bring up how unreliable, unfaithful, neglectful and awful he has been to me?

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Question - (12 January 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 13 January 2012)
A female United States age 30-35, *ocansam writes:

I have been with my boyfriend for over a year. He is unreliable, never makes time for me, he has been unfaithful, he ignors me, and just treats me so terrible. But as hard as i try, i cannot stop loving him. Is there any right way to brong this up to him?

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (13 January 2012):

tennisstar88 agony auntHave you ever tried to confront him about his behavior or do you continue to let him treat you like dirt??

What specifically has he done to you? Need more info to give you a better answer.

You just confront him in the flesh on how he treats you and see what his reaction is. Possibly even give him an ultimatum if he doesn't start treating you like a girlfriend instead of garbage. BUT if he doesn't care about you know, I highly doubt an ultimatum will work.

Looks like breakup is your only option if you want to be treated better. This guy doesn't sound like he's the boy for the job.

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A female reader, angelalb United States +, writes (13 January 2012):

I know from experience let him go. He does not deserve you. You could do so much better. Daniele

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