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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (13 January 2012):
 What Tisha Said!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2012): I never post messages on people's wall's I always private message them. I simply don't like posting it where everyone can see it, maybe it's just that, no special meaning at all.
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (12 January 2012):
 You're overanalysing this.
I agree with Tisha's answer. All it was was a Christmas greeting and the fact that it was sent privately implies no special meaning.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2012): Maybe he didnt want people to see it on the wall for fear of a certain someone else finding out. I get some on my wall and some private. I dont read into it as anything and neither should you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2012): Maybe it meant more to send it private. OR maybe he didn't want anyone to know he sent wished you the happiest. I had a bud that was married and he would send me private messages so his wife wouldn't see and get jealous.
I got tired of the drama and booted him out of my FB.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (12 January 2012):
 Some people don't know how to use Facebook and may not realize the difference between the wall and the private messaging.
Some people may not want everyone to know they are communicating with you.
He may have gone through his address book and private messaged everyone he knows, you just don't see that as those are private messages.
Assume it's friendly and go from there. All he's done is wish you happy holidays. Wait and see what happens next, if anything!
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (12 January 2012):
 If I didn't have their physical address I would just post on their wall. Why? Because wishing someone Happy New Year or Merry Christmas is not really that "personal" that it warrants a PM, IMHO
I'm, however more of a card kind of person and would most likely send people I WANT to wish happy greetings a card.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2012): I private message everyone to say happy birthday or christmas. It dont mean shit.
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