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writes: My hubby had a emmotional affair with his co.worker..even he was ready to 2 marriage but the girl want him to leave me..but he can't do this bcz he thinks he is a victom of love but also love me and our 6 y old baby.now my hubby has leave this girl.but stil says that he loves her too but not sexualy.My hubby is 6 feet high but my hight is 5.1 feet...He likes the big boobs but I have only 32 oR 34.i have also a bad habit of walking with bend neck and back..i am 32 years old with 56j.g weight now.U r right he has lost his sexual interest for me.both of us are worried.he blames me that I don,t try to attract him,please him sexualy and I think he doesn,t make me feel happy..He has been a hot man,but due to his affair I have lost the confidance ..he gave himself priorty sexualy.not try to understand me..I try to have sex but he has become passionles and cold...even I feel hot and heated but his penus doesn,t response.he says .its my duty to arouse him..now help me what to do?Plz I need more and people advice..Reply me soon...
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2012): how can he tell you what to do if he can't even stay faithful.
he doesn't deserve you at all, you should move on and find a man who treats you well.
he sounds like a disgusting creature.
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reader, xxChristina5xx  +, writes (12 January 2012):
 I agree with what youwish said. He shouldn't have got married at all. It sounds like he's trying to make u feel bad for his own faults. He's the one fooling around and hes making you feel bad for nothing.
It also sounds like hes trapping you because he knows he has done wrong, although he dosent really want to admit it and hes unsure of you and this other woman?
Either way, cheating is not acceptable at all. you say its your duty?? but what about him trying to proove himself to you since its his fault??
Honestly, I dont think you have to proove anything. It think its him who should be prooving he is sorry to you!! and as for the boobs thing i wouldnt worry, people are made the way you are and he should like you for you. hope this helped
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reader, Read-the-signs +, writes (12 January 2012):
I think you have been damaged emotionally by what he has said and done, and I think that will continue to be the case unless HE changes radically and wants to make your marriage work. Unless he can be exclusive to you, cherish you and make you feel valued and desired then it will have to end. Otherwise you could be in for years of enduring a truly unsatisfactory relationship.
I wish you well.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2012): I am sorry but it is not your duty to arouse him, it's HIS duty to be faithful to his wife, take care of his family and honour his marriage vows. He is a selfish and abusive man. He is trying to blame you so he doesn't have to admit that he is to blame. HE had an affair on you, HE broke his vows to you and HE caused this problem by his actions. Be strong and ask him if he wants this marriage to work, if so then go to couples therapy.
You are not to blame for this situation, so please do not accept his blame. He should be apologising to you, and trying to do everything to ask you for you to forgive him. It doesn't matter what size your boobs are, he didn't care when he married you, so why is it a problem now. He is being a coward trying to blame you, be strong and hold your head high, he is in the wrong. You are not a toy who has to arouse him, he should be aroused because he loves you. He is treating you badly, don't let him do this to you. Good Luck.
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (12 January 2012):
 He says that it's your duty to arouse him?
Umm, sorry, but it's his duty to honor his marriage vows and not play around with a co-worker. I don't care if it's emotional or not.
Sounds like you'd be much better off without this selfish excuse for a man. Doesn't matter what size boobs he likes. If yours were unacceptable, he shouldn't have gotten married.
Don't fall for his crap. It's not your fault he cheated, and it's not your duty to become his play-toy. It takes two to make a marriage work, and there's nothing you can do once he's checked out of the marriage and is into someone else.
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